I also had a lot of NSA sex when my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me…except i didn’t have to pay for it. I didn’t hire a hooker because there were already people willing to have sex with me for free. But he should know, he’s not helping. He needs to get his shit together and spend time by himself. To heal and get better.
Oh, I knew for a fact that he lived with his mother and had never married! Like you, that isn’t the issue.
It’s my belief that the guy was almost obsessional about compartmentalising his life. His friends NEVER met his family, his family NEVER met his girlfriend. His girlfriend NEVER met his work colleagues. No group EVER met, or knew anything about any other group. He literally had NO ONE that he uncompromisingly shared his life with.
Yes, we probably all have certain boundaries. My fellow, for instance, is highly unlikely to like my friend Sue, who’s vegan and into crystal healing (things that he really doesn’t like), so when I see Sue, he’s not around. But do I keep her as a secret-won’t tell him her NAME, deny that I even HAVE any friends? No. Of course not.
It’s a personality type that some people might be perfectly happy to settle down with. Me, not so much.
I also had a lot of NSA sex when my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me…except i didn’t have to pay for it. I didn’t hire a hooker because there were already people willing to have sex with me for free. But he should know, he’s not helping. He needs to get his shit together and spend time by himself. To heal and get better.
Can exist as their true selves is a weird way of saying enacting mentally ill delusions.
Oh, I knew for a fact that he lived with his mother and had never married! Like you, that isn’t the issue.
It’s my belief that the guy was almost obsessional about compartmentalising his life. His friends NEVER met his family, his family NEVER met his girlfriend. His girlfriend NEVER met his work colleagues. No group EVER met, or knew anything about any other group. He literally had NO ONE that he uncompromisingly shared his life with.
Yes, we probably all have certain boundaries. My fellow, for instance, is highly unlikely to like my friend Sue, who’s vegan and into crystal healing (things that he really doesn’t like), so when I see Sue, he’s not around. But do I keep her as a secret-won’t tell him her NAME, deny that I even HAVE any friends? No. Of course not.
It’s a personality type that some people might be perfectly happy to settle down with. Me, not so much.
Are you suggesting that her level of comfort with her body and during intercourse isn't about her?