He is cheating on you emotionally and he doesn’t respect your boundaries. That he lies to you and he getting upset when you mention the husband are a huge red flag!! Keep yourself first and keep moving forward without him!
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If you’re spending ten plus hours with a girl and watching movies alone together whilst you’re in a relationship, you’re fucking up and you know what you’re doing.
This is coming from someone whose got loads of female friends For the most part we’d hang out with other friends and have some time one on one before or after a night out or a few drinks and a movie on occasion if broke but never consistently spend long time at home alone frequently and it was never flirtatious as that’s creepy coming from a friend.
One thing that did change if any of female friends were in a relationship or I was we then mostly went out with others and hung out with their boyfriends. Note a spoken rule, but anyone that respected this partner did this.
I’m not saying there aren’t exceptions to that rule, but you definitely aren’t. You knew what you were doing and went along with it and now you’ve pushed too far and want advice.
If your gf is already aware I would be really surprised as you seem about as discreet as a rhino at a tea party.
I genuinely don’t have any real advice for you as you’ve already fucked up.
This other girl may seem great but early on in relationships is called a honey moon period for a reason. Do the right thing by your girlfriend either way
He is cheating on you emotionally and he doesn’t respect your boundaries. That he lies to you and he getting upset when you mention the husband are a huge red flag!! Keep yourself first and keep moving forward without him!
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But yes I do know what you mean
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If you’re spending ten plus hours with a girl and watching movies alone together whilst you’re in a relationship, you’re fucking up and you know what you’re doing.
This is coming from someone whose got loads of female friends For the most part we’d hang out with other friends and have some time one on one before or after a night out or a few drinks and a movie on occasion if broke but never consistently spend long time at home alone frequently and it was never flirtatious as that’s creepy coming from a friend.
One thing that did change if any of female friends were in a relationship or I was we then mostly went out with others and hung out with their boyfriends. Note a spoken rule, but anyone that respected this partner did this.
I’m not saying there aren’t exceptions to that rule, but you definitely aren’t. You knew what you were doing and went along with it and now you’ve pushed too far and want advice.
If your gf is already aware I would be really surprised as you seem about as discreet as a rhino at a tea party.
I genuinely don’t have any real advice for you as you’ve already fucked up.
This other girl may seem great but early on in relationships is called a honey moon period for a reason. Do the right thing by your girlfriend either way
If she’s single, you clearly shouldn’t.
The problem isn't that he chose to help them.
The problem is that he didn't even think to mention that anything was happening before it was already done.
Honestly you need to tell her she fucked up and you’re done.
Leave your boyfriend
He doesn't care about you if he doesn't care about your health. Do what you want. If he doesn't like it, then he can date someone else.
Yeah I see a surprise pregnancy announcement in OP's future