I know it sucks, and it hurts, but at the end of the day, he made the right decision.
This is one of those irreconcilable differences that can (and should) end relationships.
He most likely doesn’t want kids, you do. There is no middle ground here, and you could spend the next 5 years trying to negotiate or compromise, without funding one. And by then, it’s too late for you.
You are 33 years old. You know that you don’t always get to have a say in someone else’s decision, so being angry at him for making this decision is unfair. You are focusing on the wrong thing. You should be thankful that he didn’t want to waste anymore of your time, and was selfless enough to end the relationship early, without stringing you along.
Just say “Don't worry about it. I was just shocked because I liked you but its clear we're not on the same page. I think its best if we just let bygones be bygones and just remain friendly. Its not you, its me.”
That was my point totally unwilling to compromise could be because of the need for control due to trauma. Part of ptsd issues is I cannot ride share with anyone unless I have the keys and drive, our last house had one entrance exit into the kitchen. I must always have a way to flee. I trust my husband even my child, but blocking me will trigger me to panic. I need to control the ability to flee, by exiting or driving away.
Absolutely not.
Source: happily married nearly 20 years, never broken up.
Yeah that isn't your wife lmao.
Paternity test asap.
I know it sucks, and it hurts, but at the end of the day, he made the right decision.
This is one of those irreconcilable differences that can (and should) end relationships.
He most likely doesn’t want kids, you do. There is no middle ground here, and you could spend the next 5 years trying to negotiate or compromise, without funding one. And by then, it’s too late for you.
You are 33 years old. You know that you don’t always get to have a say in someone else’s decision, so being angry at him for making this decision is unfair. You are focusing on the wrong thing. You should be thankful that he didn’t want to waste anymore of your time, and was selfless enough to end the relationship early, without stringing you along.
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Just say “Don't worry about it. I was just shocked because I liked you but its clear we're not on the same page. I think its best if we just let bygones be bygones and just remain friendly. Its not you, its me.”
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That was my point totally unwilling to compromise could be because of the need for control due to trauma. Part of ptsd issues is I cannot ride share with anyone unless I have the keys and drive, our last house had one entrance exit into the kitchen. I must always have a way to flee. I trust my husband even my child, but blocking me will trigger me to panic. I need to control the ability to flee, by exiting or driving away.
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