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Date: October 24, 2022
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Yes jumping on the council tax point as I also live in London and pay less than £250. Also there are all kinds of reductions if there are students and people with disabilities in the house so worth checking on that (I don't know the details but when I moved and filled in the forms there were loads of qs about this!)
Indian woman here. He’s not gonna marry you, if he wanted to, he would’ve never been so blunt. You’re probably a way better catch than whoever his parents will pick, but he’s too scared to defy. Cut your losses and leave. 🙁
You shouldn’t go back. The red flags are much ???
Notice how she’s gone for the smallest amount of truth. • sex for only one minute – because she can’t deny it happened • doesn’t remember anything – so you can’t blame her for cheating and she can blame intoxication • wasn’t assault (so you won’t tell her to press charges) • the other friend just left 30 minutes before (why didn’t the bff leave with him???)- so you won’t think anything happened overnight • coherent enough you at 8 to check when you’re coming home but not enough to not cheat???
You definitely need to contact the guy and the best friend. Find out if this was really the first and only time and if the bff was there at all, when he left and why his bff didn’t leave with him. Check her phone (show up unannounced and ask to check it. Maybe even text the bff from her phone
I’m glad you’re out of there and I’m so sorry this happened to you.
I am concerned that you putting off telling your friends and consulting a lawyer/making a police report will be a mistake you regret later on. You are letting your ex set the narrative and it will be extremely difficult to reverse her lies and clear your name if you ghost everyone. She will be the pregnant victim and you’ll be the irresponsible asshole who abandoned her. (Don’t think she won’t do that to you, btw. She’s already proven she has no moral backbone.) If you ultimately decide you don’t want to be in the child’s life (and therefore hers as well,) you likely need to have something regarding the situation on the legal record to establish you were reproductively raped ASAP. You need to consult a lawyer asap
I know you’re in a terrible state of pain and confusion, but you don’t actually have 8 months to sort it out and sticking your head in the sand for a bit will likely limit your options and happy outcomes. Lean on your family for support, but don’t procrastinate your future away.
I wish you the best of luck!
He does realize that humans are continuously swallowing our own saliva right?
My advice, move on. If it was a true phobia, okay I'd suggest getting him some help. However, he's using it to control you as well as insult/put you down. That is not okay. This is still a new relationship and the control and anger issues will probably only escalate.
This is unhealthy.
Bro, let me ask you something sincerely. Have you ever disclosed whether you are cis before sex?
You don't have to wash your hands (though you should for pooping – you can not only make yourself sick by relocating bacteria like E. coli from your intestines to your stomach if they hitch a ride on your hands, but spread any intestinal bacteria or parasites you have to other people – and to be safe for peeing, though there are far fewer public health implications ot not washing after peeing); she doesn't have to date (or be around) anyone who doesn't.
Because I think that puts a lot of pressure on a person. I don't think I would want that type of seriousness when we're still learning about each other. Just knowing her she would laugh at it. She's as closed off as it is.
And I will only assume, but from my experience a male-female relationship doesn't work that well if there is pressure on “making it work”, and institutional pressure is the ultimate pressure.
I have found that women want to be care free and not deal with figuring out a relationship with their partner. They want their partner to bring them joy. After many years of being with someone a counselor seems very justified. But in the early stages then want things to be natural. They deal with too many other emphatic feelings otherwise. This is not to say that you can't talk about emotions with your partner. I mean more in the likes of relationship workings. Might be better not to look under the hood
Man you are about to shoot yourself in the foot. Don’t say anything just exercise some discipline. You are obviously very aware of this so dial it down. If you say something you run the risk as others have said of creating an extremely awkward situation for you both or you end up talking to the compliance people about harassment. You know what the boundaries are so be the adult in the room
Ask him?