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As someone who grew up in an extremely abusive household, I can tell you for sure that some of us had to learn to turn off our emotional responses as a means of survival. Having had a parent who routinely yelled, “If you don't stop crying, I'll give you something to cry about!” and who was also very liberal with the paddle, you learn to steel and numb yourself emotionally when you realize that you can't numb your bare ass when a grown man is mercilessly hitting it with a wooden plank over, and over, and over. That's an act of self-preservation, not one of manipulation. It's absolutely a response to abuse, and I'm sure plenty of abuse survivors know precisely what I'm talking about.
Why do you want to repair a relationship with a man who was willing to trap you into having a baby youvsaid you didn't want? You do understand that's assault, right?
I don't believe you did anything wrong by stating that you didn't want kids without stating that you are unable to have them. I'm a little surprised that after 3 years of being with someone you didn't feel like you could trust him with that level of health knowledge though. Maybe you should examine why that is.
I’m American. My 22 year old son works and has his own place and pays his own bills. My 20 year old works and is finishing up college. He’ll be moving out within the year. I don’t have a single friend that has a child over the age of 22 that isn’t self supporting. Not one and I have plenty of friends.
Are you sure you know everything? Just because she didn’t tell you he also assaulted her doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. And even if that didn’t happen, how likely do you think it is that there wasn’t some form of abuse going on. Perhaps psychological abuse from the father. A man like that marrying, divorcing and abusing his daughters sounds like a piece of work. So she may have been spoiled but that doesn’t mean nothing was going on. I was my fathers favourite and he was abusive in so many ways. Groping and lurking and watching me hot as I was growing up. But not just that, he would come to me in the middle of the night with a backpack and tell me to pack a bag because he couldn’t stand to be here anymore with my mum. Said we were leaving to get up and packed and dressed and wait for him. And I did because he played me and my mum off each other and I thought she hated me. And I waited and we never left. And he would wink the next mornign and tell me to be ready. And I was ready to leave for a decade and the amount of trauma that shit caused is still being worked out with my therapist! You’re judging your girlfriend when you probably don’t know everything!
Please have this kind loving man’s baby. For heaven sake, he loves you and he wants this child. So it didn’t happen at the right time but it happened. You have been thrust into adulthood. So you will adjust to the change in your plans and you will love your child like nothing else. Don’t throw it away. Don’t destroy this life within you because you aren’t willing to adjust to the change in your plans. You will regret it for the rest of your life. Because not only will you lose this baby that the two of you created but you will lose your man as well. There will be no turning back.
You shouldn’t get past it. Do what you need to do.
At the same time, you’re responsible for your reproductive health. If you’re stupid enough to engage in unprotected sex, you’re chances of becoming a father skyrocket. Congrats.
As someone who grew up in an extremely abusive household, I can tell you for sure that some of us had to learn to turn off our emotional responses as a means of survival. Having had a parent who routinely yelled, “If you don't stop crying, I'll give you something to cry about!” and who was also very liberal with the paddle, you learn to steel and numb yourself emotionally when you realize that you can't numb your bare ass when a grown man is mercilessly hitting it with a wooden plank over, and over, and over. That's an act of self-preservation, not one of manipulation. It's absolutely a response to abuse, and I'm sure plenty of abuse survivors know precisely what I'm talking about.
Why do you want to repair a relationship with a man who was willing to trap you into having a baby youvsaid you didn't want? You do understand that's assault, right?
I don't believe you did anything wrong by stating that you didn't want kids without stating that you are unable to have them. I'm a little surprised that after 3 years of being with someone you didn't feel like you could trust him with that level of health knowledge though. Maybe you should examine why that is.
I’m American. My 22 year old son works and has his own place and pays his own bills. My 20 year old works and is finishing up college. He’ll be moving out within the year. I don’t have a single friend that has a child over the age of 22 that isn’t self supporting. Not one and I have plenty of friends.
Are you sure you know everything? Just because she didn’t tell you he also assaulted her doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. And even if that didn’t happen, how likely do you think it is that there wasn’t some form of abuse going on. Perhaps psychological abuse from the father. A man like that marrying, divorcing and abusing his daughters sounds like a piece of work. So she may have been spoiled but that doesn’t mean nothing was going on. I was my fathers favourite and he was abusive in so many ways. Groping and lurking and watching me hot as I was growing up. But not just that, he would come to me in the middle of the night with a backpack and tell me to pack a bag because he couldn’t stand to be here anymore with my mum. Said we were leaving to get up and packed and dressed and wait for him. And I did because he played me and my mum off each other and I thought she hated me. And I waited and we never left. And he would wink the next mornign and tell me to be ready. And I was ready to leave for a decade and the amount of trauma that shit caused is still being worked out with my therapist! You’re judging your girlfriend when you probably don’t know everything!
I take it you've had bad luck with this?
Please have this kind loving man’s baby. For heaven sake, he loves you and he wants this child. So it didn’t happen at the right time but it happened. You have been thrust into adulthood. So you will adjust to the change in your plans and you will love your child like nothing else. Don’t throw it away. Don’t destroy this life within you because you aren’t willing to adjust to the change in your plans. You will regret it for the rest of your life. Because not only will you lose this baby that the two of you created but you will lose your man as well. There will be no turning back.
You shouldn’t get past it. Do what you need to do.
At the same time, you’re responsible for your reproductive health. If you’re stupid enough to engage in unprotected sex, you’re chances of becoming a father skyrocket. Congrats.