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Date: October 28, 2022
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This is good, but then she can’t turn around and on-line with her parents.
As long as she lives with her mom she will have this kind of conflict. She may have the conflict even after living with her, but at least then she COULD tell her to buzz off.
Wild thing to say to a partner
Perhaps ask her permission to read the letters prior to her sending them to make sure there isn't any 3rd party guilt tripping or gaslighting in the hopes that your family will try to guilt you back with her. Ask her to not divulge details of your relationship or break up in the letters and just keep it to her thanking them for the positive impact and sense of belonging and family they gave to her during their times together.
you must like this person
Whether he’s lying or not would be irrelevant to me. I would not be with a person that left me worrying and wondering it like this. It’s over at that point for me
she may not believe that you told your friend off.
Talk to her. Tell her that you got rid of your friend and apologize for not putting hey in her place faster. Ask her for an exclusive relationship
There are two people in this relationship who appear to be on very different pages. She's wanting children and you do not (yet, anyway). These are fine but she cannot force her wants and wishes on you. Four months is not a long time in terms of relationships and very early to be thinking about children.
Have you both sat down and had a conversation with each other? Does she know where you stand when it comes to having children now? Have you asked why she has felt the need to stop taking her pill? Perhaps it's causing side effects that she doesn't want to deal with. In which case, there are other birth control methods to explore. Is there perhaps a reason she is concerned with her fertility? For example, perhaps there is family history where the women struggle to conceive? If she is concerned with her fertility, perhaps a visit to a fertility specialist would help ease her worries?
Having said all that, absolutely do not have unprotected sex with this woman. Regardless of her saying that she wouldn't hold you to any responsibility, how is that fair on a child? And single parenthood is a big challenge that is harder than a lot of people think. There seems to be a lot of naivety here.
If she isn’t heading towards being clinically obese, you don’t say anything to her. If you can’t handle a bit of weight gain then leave the relationship. Don’t ever tell someone they’re getting fat or they need to lose weight unless they’re risking their health
You sound like a backup support.
What do you really want from a relationship? Is this it because it doesn’t sound like it.
Her reasons seem so vague! Why doesn’t she approve of your relationship with him exactly?
Weird
You cheated and got pregnant, and your husband raised someone else’s child for two years. What do you want, sympathy? Why should he, or WE, believe anything you say?!
Thank you! Same situation in my house.
Your boyfriend cares more about your dad's approval than yours and that's just strange. When you sit down and talk to your boyfriend, you could ask him what he thinks of your parents' relationship. If he says he sees that it's not good, then ask him why he'd take advice from a man who isn't successful himself. If he thinks it's good (you said it's not) then ask yourself if you want a relationship with someone who is similar to your dad.
Car or no car, it's thoughtless not to tell someone when you're coming home. But to do so while driving your car is gutsy. It sounds like he was being a jerk before dad told him the controlling thing.
Don't get bogged down in who is right or wrong. That's a sure way to get nowhere. Tell him it's important to you and ask him if he will honor that. This is not a big ask so if the answer is no, or he continues to show up whenever he pleases, that's a deal breaker. Ask for his side of things and really listen. Then if you can, take those two 'wants' and tackle them together (as long as he's asking for something reasonable). So it's not you or him that's the problem, it's you both finding a solution that works for you. But prepare for that to potentially not happen because your boyfriend is already showing some abusive behaviors.
Abusive people seek out people who have had trauma or abuse. An example- A guy walks into a bar. He approaches 3 separate women. With woman 1 he says, “that dress will look beautiful when you lose a few pounds.” She's tells him off. With woman 2 he says, “You have pretty eyes. What color are they? Oh, I thought they were blue. Still okay I guess.” She tells him to take a long leap off a short pier. With woman 3, he says, “your hair would be gorgeous if you styled it differently.” She says, “Oh I know right? I had to leave from work to get here and I didn't have time to make it look better.” She is happy for the compliment even though there's something about it that bothers her that she can't quite pinpoint. Or she knows it was a jerk thing to say but subconsciously doesn't know she deserves better. I'm only using man to woman here but it could be woman to man or any other identity. That abuser constantly tests you to see how much you'll accept.
When we are not sure about when things are abusive we tend to discount our own experiences. We gaslight ourselves. Know that your needs are valid and important. Your boyfriend can either get with the program or be left behind because you deserve a healthy and happy relationship.
She’s a loser. Get out while you can and WEAR A CONDOM
If you want to remain together you need to both accommodate to each other. Since you both have anxiety focus on bettering yourself and in meantime both try to fix situation the best you can. Aince he couldn't stop perhaps you should have told him it's time out or specific phrase that you both agree that will work for him to snap it out even for a second and realize he needs to cool down.
I have anxiety and for me it helps if i listen to music or just sit down alone and watch a nature without talking. It's important to learn how to help yourself and yes sometimes it's very hot but with time it gets better.
It does sound like he's insecure and he's looking for help which may make you feel bittersweet about this. It doesn't sound personal and like this would be an issue for him regardless of who he is dating right now.
I would frankly take this opportunity to bring it up casually at a time that feels right for you two.Meaning a time with no tension, stress, and one where both of you are in the right headspace to have a mature and adult conversation about his feelings, NOT THE SEARCHES AND NOT THE PORN. You will need to show genuine concern about his mental health and not his browsing actions.
He’s a predator.
Leave, as you should have never dated him to begin with.
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Don't bother confronting him. He's a cheater. Good that you found out early on and don't need to waste much time on him. He's probably one of those people who are extremely jealous of their partner while fucking arround the entire time.
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Co-parent and child support. You’re whole relationship is a lie or what you would call a relationship.
Op is a male
You're dating a 7 year old
And all my husband gets me is lingerie ? your a good husband
I think so, but these days you never know.
Yes to foreplay but no to kissing?
You are going to have to get a different debit card that she can’t use and give her cash that fits your budget. She will be upset but that is the only way she can understand it is serious. That can motivate her to get a job and make her own money and spend what she wants.
Kittens can sleep or rest almost anywhere with a pillow or towel and be just fine, a grown man doesn’t have as many options. So you prioritizing them on the bed over him, is you taking kitten care a bit too far. That said, his reaction is over the top and saying he doesnt want kids with you because he fears you’ll take care of the kids over him is so incredibly selfish, kids need more care than a grown ass adult male. Think long and very hot about staying with this guy, as that right there shows he expects to be the priority, regardless of the needs of anyone else in the picture. That’s not someone who’d make a good partner.
Tha's fine, I'm not here for a popularity contest. It just shows how many intolerant people that are in this world.
You need to be the one that’s angry and defensive. How dare she sexualize your love and care for your sister and how dare she make such an assumption about your father. SHE is the sick one and I would never want to have a family with someone like her that sexualizes everything.
There are tons of people who are single, never been married, and don't have kids at 26.
I suggest you do leave, a sexless relationship sucks.
She lives with her mother. Gold digger is kicking them both out of her childhood home. Not figuring that out is… wow
I don't have an issue with him wanting kids. Eventually. What is a red flad is the “wants many kids soon”. How many is mqny? How soon is soon? Has he thought through the massive hit to finances, health, and time that kids will create?
this needs to stop yesterday. He has no trust for you and his insecurities are through the roof. NOthing worse than someone needing constant updates when youre not around. Tell him to stick it!
Don't date him, call police for a welfare check but I bet you he's bluffing and it's a manipulative tactic!
How certain are you that his ex was the abuser, to be honest?
Cut him out of your life! Done and dusted
That kid is his son. DNA doesn't matter. He should fight to get him.
Gosh I hate living in a sharehouse as it is, I couldn’t imagine sharing a room with someone ?
Dang… and sitting down and talking about it doesnt help at all?
I’m glad you laid it out there because you do need some support.
Why are you settling for someone who lies to you? Is this the type of advice you’d give friends too?
You want honesty and she’s not willing to give it to you. You are not being unreasonable.
Breakup.
He wants to try and work on things and promises me he’s not gonna treat me poorly anymore but i just don’t know if that’s gonna happen. i love him and care so much for him and losing him for good is gonna be devastating