He went no contact 21 hours ago and her comments say this was Christmas Eve when dinner took place. It's Christmas over here in the US, but the sun hasn't even risen and I don't doubt this took place here.
I dont know what country you on-line in but where i online there are no states or territories that allow men to give up the child without having to pay child support without another man adopting the kid.
This is not the way to handle your finances. You do not quit your job, and take out loans you have no means to pay back. Also all this financial generosity buying you a PlayStation and all your meals? If you marry her that’s money that’s gonna have to come out of your pocket to pay back. She seems to have no idea how to manage money.
Tell her the wedding is off until she gets a job and starts paying off her credit card debt and loan. If she wants to go out to dinner tell her no, do you want to support her getting out of debt. If she buys you expensive gifts, tell her to take them back. You would rather have a house than a PlayStation.
Sit down with her and make a budget. Show her how much money is coming in and how much money is being spent. Unless she grasps the concept of money, you refuse to marry her.
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It's a trap
set for you by your girlfriend
He went no contact 21 hours ago and her comments say this was Christmas Eve when dinner took place. It's Christmas over here in the US, but the sun hasn't even risen and I don't doubt this took place here.
I dont know what country you on-line in but where i online there are no states or territories that allow men to give up the child without having to pay child support without another man adopting the kid.
This is not the way to handle your finances. You do not quit your job, and take out loans you have no means to pay back. Also all this financial generosity buying you a PlayStation and all your meals? If you marry her that’s money that’s gonna have to come out of your pocket to pay back. She seems to have no idea how to manage money.
Tell her the wedding is off until she gets a job and starts paying off her credit card debt and loan. If she wants to go out to dinner tell her no, do you want to support her getting out of debt. If she buys you expensive gifts, tell her to take them back. You would rather have a house than a PlayStation.
Sit down with her and make a budget. Show her how much money is coming in and how much money is being spent. Unless she grasps the concept of money, you refuse to marry her.
holy shit girl!! RUN!!!!
Despite loving someone and getting along, do you believe the way one acts when they’re mad should be considered?
When he’s not mad, he’s madly in love with me- but when he is mad, it’s almost as if he automatically sees red all upon me.