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Date: November 5, 2022
I don't see this as “manipulation” just that she is unhappy, has told you that she is, and is trying to work through if your marriage can be saved.
Counseling hasn't worked so a separation seems like a logical next step. She says she wants to work on herself. She can decline sex, and of course she would decline sex, she wants to be separated from you.
I'm not sure if she is sleeping with a co worker, or taking this opportunity to sleep with someone else, or just feels free and wants to hang out- with no sex. She may just not want to be home with you. The job gave her a place to go away from you and you say the separation is 3 weeks from now but also that it starts today? Either way, she may see the separation meaning she can just stay away from the house in general.
I think you are focusing on the wrong things. Your wife is unhappy, she has made it clear she is unhappy, she wants to separate. Those things don't change for her whether she is sleeping with someone else or not. So instead of using your children to get her to talk so you can confront her about where she is, or wondering if there is some secret issue, you can just tackle the issues that are big and in front of you. She wants to separate, you agreed, so agree on the terms you can actually live! with, and then separate. What do you want to work on during this separation? What are “rules” that you need for the separation for it to be actually about improving your relationship or seeing if you can be together? Or if you think your wife is just separating to cheat, then skip the separation and go straight for divorce.
Far from that, keep going with your miserable comments and life. I promise, you’re not hurting me, making me feel any type of way or getting under my skin.
If you were in the wife's shoes, what would you want the other woman to do?
I think that some men love the idea of “having kids” but are only thinking about tossing a ball in the backyard. Not about the physical and emotional impacts to mom, her loss of lifelong earning potential, her feeling touched out, and so forth.
You don’t grow a human in your body and then expel it and come out the other side looking like you did in high school.
Have your fun, but start taking your heart out of the relationship. This is probably not going to be a long term situation. Seems like her freak flag is flying a little higher than yours so you may not be sexually compatible in the long run. But look, you are young. Have the experience and move on. If you are not into it, then let her go on and find someone who is. If this is in your brain, she is going to do it one way or another. Nothing wrong with her wanting to, and she came to you with the request. And nothing wrong with you not being comfortable with it. Let me tell you from experience, they aren’t all that great with people in serious relationships. Someone always brings emotions to the party.
It won't work because your boyfriend is either stupid or unreasonable, so why do you WANT it to work?