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miaandwilliam chat
Date: October 24, 2022
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English is fine; Even “native” speakers, speak poor English.
To your question: You can’t force her, and convincing her to concede to your will is coercion, which is is illegal. So if you want children and she doesn’t, then you’ll need to accept it, rendering you incompatible with each other. You could either stay with her or leave and look for someone who wants to have a family.
YOU DONT EVEN REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED? Really?
Jeez. Just say you don't give a fuck about your wife.
Walk away and go no contact. That will help him decide.
This is a personal choice for you.
I personally don't think you need to be so black and white about ending the friendship or not, and you might benefit from simply taking more space for yourself. Maybe just take some time and reduce your frequency and/or connectivity of your interactions with this person. Back off a bit, as it were.
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I have to admit I skimmed this. I’m a man, and I think it’s quite logical and does not make you an asshole. Why should the burden of birth control be on you? If neither wants something so invasive then do condom. If you don’t mind condom and he minds condom then he should get vasectomy.
You can ask the other person to wear a condom whenever I feel.
What?..
The simple reality is that virtually nobody gets that kind of hot time without being a career criminal or getting convicted of something very serious.
Cannabis convictions prove that statement wrong, quite easily too.
I would also have an issue with being “told” to remove pictures from my own profile. Firstly, if they're over 7 years old, no one's looking at them. Secondly, they're dated, right? So “all your friends and family” know he has an ex…and? How's that an issue?
HOWEVER!
The response is really concerning. I understand he feelings of you being controlling, and I even agree. But he's still trash for his response.
The sad fact here is that he doesn't respect you. He can't. And of course, he's sorry now, you're in control of his living situation, and if he doesn't manage to grovel and keep you, he has to move out and fend for himself.
What about the next argument when you do something he doesn't like? And the one after that?
If you guys are together forever, you're going to disagree a lot. Is that something you feel safe doing with someone whose response is hatred?
Why would this bother you at all?
It sounds like he was embarrassed and it didn't have anything to do with you. If you really like him and think there is a future keep seeing him but get to know each other more build intimacy between you. If it was just intended as a sex thing – move on – sex with him just wasn't good – find better.