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Date: October 22, 2022
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My BFF’s cop husband damn near murdered her and their two children. Nobody helped her. Not a single police group in 100 miles would help her, and even the judges sided with the cops every time. When they had kid exchanges, he’d bring other cops to stand there with their hands on their weapons. He had other squads follow her in their cars for months. Absolutely terrified her.
NEVER EVER DO IT. They self-report that 40% are abusers. That’s what they’ll admit to, so the number is likely much higher. They’re taught to lie and cheat, and that nobody matters expect for other cops. Please, leave the, be.
Women go after married men for the same reason that horse thieves go after tamed horses and not wild ones.
Don’t do it. At all. My brother did it with his now ex wife who is Chinese and yeah… she’s his ex wife now
He isn't tho
So letting her keep your life on hold. Get out there and live!!
Thank you for the reply! On the bright side ill be travelling so that's good. You know what they say distance makes the heart grow weary!
Right. Lmfao
If you tell him it will most likely blow up in your face. If you don’t tell him it will be like living with a loaded gun pointed at your face.
Sucks to be you
I can attest, this is how me and my now ex became physically abusive with each other. It started off as fun play fights, chasing each other around the apartment and what not. But shit got real fast and we were so toxic for each other. Granted, we moved too fast anyway, but it can easily go south.
You BF respected you though OP. If he didn’t stop then that would raise questions. He obviously cares about you and doesn’t want to hurt you. If you guys knows the difference I think its okay to banter like this with your partner.
I am with you 100%. I feel as though her ”lies” when telling stories is manipulative. So I can see why you feel the way you do.
You need to talk to a therapist. Both of you.
She may be feeling real emotions and not manipulating you. But this is preventing you two from communicating properly and doesn’t allow you to express yourself fully. She also needs to learn to control her emotions.
As a crier, I eventually grew out of it or learned when to take deep breaths to control it. She should learn how to as well.
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If it's a type of pit, please do not have kids until it is in the house. They can be all normal dogs for a time and randomly snap, like here.
Your kitty is at the forever miceland now. Rest in peace, kitten.
He failed the skill check, but he meant well. I guess you can chew him out for a couple days? You can also focus on ex resize to become that type of attractive woman in his DMs too if it really bothers you.
looking at the replies and your comments OP, i think you're better off without him. i know couples therapy has been suggested, and there's no age when it comes to getting help, but he's too old to be this immature. he's bothered not because he's thinking about you, but because he's only thinking about himself. if he really cared, he would get better at sex, which doesn't begin and end with his dick
He started crying ????they all do that AFTER lmaoooo
If you can't afford to pay for it, accept the gift of a meal to share with her.
Foolish.
What is the point of bringing it up in therapy, we are done with therapy. At least for the next 3 or 6 months.
This is so disgusting and disturbing. It sounds like a kink, unfortunately. This is beyond gross.
leave his family alone
You move on by reading he cares more about an iPad and some electronics than people. You want kids with that guy? Imagining is Enough to help the heart a bit.
You both sound depressed and should consider counselling
Don't think too much into it. I worked construction for years and we showed off our wives pictures like baseball cards
The chose the second loss, not her son. She made that decision.
As if someone who plays paradox can get married, good try.
Sometimes it takes the pressure off. He probably will resist therapy so you will have to just make the appointment and let him know he needs to go with you.
The point here is that nothing has been discussed with the couple previously about specific plans. So going out to eat THIS time is not disrupting any set plans. My wife has just decided on her own that this is what she wants to do, and hasn't consulted anyone else about it, and is angry that I want to do something neutral.
I think you are correct that you are correct through a lot of stuff (especially grief) but your relationship also suffered from communication & respect issues. However, it was also only a 3 month long relationship (and it suffering from issues like this so early on didn't bode well for the future).
Why exactly do you want him back? Were you in love with him?
Go to the wedding and boot the gf , maybe she can control someone else.
It sounds like the BF is a big fish in a little pond, the OG’s don’t act like this because they know they’re good and don’t have to put others down to make themselves look good.
Those kinds of books are extremely popular right now. They have fun romance stories with smut in them. Most people read them because they are enjoyable, easy reads – but they typically don’t read them specifically for the smut.
This is not porn. This is like watching Games of Thrones or Bridgerton.
Yes it would be unfair and therefore a mistake. Maybe do some introspection and ask why you want this and if you’re happy with your boyfriend
“Yeah, that dude turned weird on me, so I blocked him.”
I believe it actually the guy's friends who documented it
Yeah maybe sex drive is just crazy LOL I don't shave so yeah I think it was a pretty big difference
It's always funny when guys decide to “open” the relationship and then get mad when they receive less attention. Anyway, this isn't a small lie. You both agreed to close the relationship, but he's still texting other women to perform sexual acts on him. That's cheating. His first major red flag was him insisting on an open relationship because he didn't feel “wanted.” Now it's the cheating. You should let this one go. Give the gifts to your neighborhood charity or something.
He is defensive because his motive was no good.
He was in a bar, horny and wanting to get laid and saw you, a sad, drunk kid and thought he could get away with it, and he did.
Now the fact that a good relationship has come from this start……good plants do grow well in shit.
The point is the fact you are in a happy relationship with him now has no bearing on why he tried to get in your pants in the first place
You're attached to a fantasy version of him you created in your head that you want the real one to become. You're living vicariously through this fantasy in the hopes that the real one will change.
I'm worried to bring it up because I don't wanna push her away. We're best friends. Not having her in my life for those few months really sucked and I like being able to talk and spend time together again. I want to ask her if we could try casually seeing each other again in a relationship context and see where it goes
I think you should tell her this, the whole thing including the worried to bring it up. Also add you want her to get therapy for her issues and you are going to support her through it.
Be willing to accept less, but give it your shot.
He was the Sweetest and kindest person up to that point. And I did be a smart ass about this
This is creepy, he's a grade A creep.
Document everything. Time, place, what was said.
Record evidence of you super politely asking him to stop calling you on your personal phone unless it's an emergency.
And gently probe the situation at work to see how much power he actually holds over layoffs.
It might be him getting laid off next time.
Not how about we split. We NEED to split the chores.
So, now he has been sexually assaulted three times.
Do it now so she can start her new life fresh.
I’m Australian. We swear and say shut up and cunt and all these types of things in normal language.
Why were you love bombing her?
Is he always drunk when he acts like that?
She should.
He can absolutely see his friends. That’s not the issue here. That’s why I said request the money in the moment. Or if you’re out somewhere tell the server to separate the checks. Complaining about him hanging out with his friends wasn’t the best approach because that’s not the problem at hand. It seems like you want to be nice about it and you can be but you must be firm in what you’re saying and stick to your guns. Buying furniture? The clerk can split the purchase on two cards.
I had a girl break up with me one time because I wasn't aggressive enough. I wouldn't hurt her when we wrestled, and she didn't like that about me. Sometimes people like different things. Obviously, her wants and needs don't mesh up with yours. Don't worry, you'll find someone who will appreciate you and your kindness someday.
He looks like he’s cheating. He seems very suspicious in all you describe here.
I have never met anyone from his side at all.
100% agreed
Yeah and let's not forget she was 19 and he was 22. That's a lot of years of learning you do between 18-25. Your brain isn't even full grown your impulse centers are driving lol. To make a foolish mistake early on between two guys you're seeing is pretty common a mistake for a young dumb teenager to make. If she's really been faithful 6 years since, what a waste of everyone's time.
Definitely best they split though. Resentment like this corrodes. She was right to confess before marriage or a proposal with an expensive ring and he's right to move on if his reaction was immediately to discuss a break up. Go with your gut and all that.
When I was in OP’s sorta situation, same age accidental pregnancy, but did not realistically feel the bf was my forever partner. We were friends who probably should have stayed friends but were a couple for a couple years. That made it decision way easier, and I booked 6 am of the absolute earliest day I could book based on my cycle dates (6w 0d LMP). I met my husband a couple years later, and we waited to late 20s to start, but if I’d got pregnant sooner, I would have probably found a way to make it work. I think that’s why I was vigilant about BC!
Look at it this way: all your life you have been living by monogamous paradigms. This was a check-in to see if you wanted something different or if you were adopting these paradigms by choice instead of because society didn't give you alternative scripts.
You said you didn't want anything else, and are blowing this kind of out or proportion by holding yourself back from being affectionate. I don't think your husband wanted to hurt you, nor was he trying to.
I think maybe you should have a conversation about how this conversation made you feel, because burying those feelings and being distant is the fastest way for you to end a marriage that by all means was working for you before this. Grown-ups talk about things when they're hurt, they don't withdraw.
The “left her for being sick” is slippery and probably subject to interpretation. Lying about having been married before is not. Get out now before you find yourself in a lifetime of lies.
Aww poor him he didn't get sex how ever will he live!
It sounds like he’s pretty egocentric and isn’t that into you.
I understand having a time consuming hobby. But if he really can’t make any time for you then he shouldn’t be trying to date.
Do a background check through one of those sketching live! services like spokeo or my life. Anything that aggregates public record information or social media.
I used my life to pull the public records on a person who I needed information on and I was able to find out what I needed. Where they had lived, criminal records, etc.
At this point, you need to verify what you do know.
Walk away. There’s a good chance she will figure it out on her own at some point. Stay safe. Don’t be the “bad news shoot the messenger” target. My gut said “tell her”. The comments here changed my POV.
Oh I will I screamed at her and my husband told her to never step a foot in our home again. I will tell them that and tell them how much I love their dad and that they very much loved and wanted
Dictator.
We learn when we're young that lies don't get us anywhere, so he will know on some level that it's wrong. Do you open up to each other?
I was in a relationship like that and leaving is the best decision I have taken. I am happier alone.
Remember you can’t make someone love you but that is okay