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Date: November 14, 2022
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He always said that there will be a marriage and not to worry about that… at some point I feel like I was waintg for nothing so I told him “if we will not marry untill nov 2023 I will be very mad”. So now its kind of decided that will marry in september or something like that (but we didn't start plannying or anything). But after all.the tings that he told me..after all the “I'm not ready, I will do it as a payback to you for waiting” after all the time when I was telling him “I can't wait to have a family with you ” and he getting mad of me for saying that and not talking with me after that… I mean… I dont know if I still want it anymore…not like that..
I mean consider the brain isn’t even fully developed until age 25.
That this is unreadable with all the spaces
“Is this life meant for pleasure or are we supposed to leave something meaningful? And what is the point of leaving something meaningful if at some point all of humans will die anyways and nothing will matter.”
It’s really a philosophical question. If you’re more nihilistic or if you think there is some purpose and meaning.
I'm viewing this from the perspective of people should meat the bare minimum of being a decent human being.
The taking non consensual photos of you part is not okay at all, but the looking at porn is normal and harmless. Every man on earth watches porn, whether he is getting laid 10 times a week or once a decade.
I think therapy is a must (individual) before you marry. You have always pictured your life with children. I know you love her but really chids aren't something you compromise on. One person will feel like they got the raw end of the deal. You don't have want in 5-10yrs to feel regret and resentment towards her because you don't have kids.
A lot of people in my family are CF (Child free) and the ones that do have children have always wanted kids. Quite a few of the CF people have gone to therapy to make sure deep down there are CF and won't regret not having kids. You only just now are seeing life without kids as an option because your afraid of losing her. It's a rash decision to make without deep reflection. Please seek help to search your own feelings because obviously deep down the thought of no kids did hurt you. Your reaction shows it's more important then your acting.
Does he ? I mean he's not compromising either. It's litteraly “Do as I want but don't hope for me to do my part, even if you would like to do another way.”.
It's just like you wanted to cook pasta because you don't like to cook meat because it's too difficult for you, he insists you cook meat but he doesn't want to cook it knowing you don't know how to cook.
Or wants to go to the mountains when you would like to go to the beach, but don't get any hotels, activities, restaurants to go to at the mountains.
And honestly, my spouse would never call me a jerk. We can argue, we can disagree, we can be angry, but name-calling is at the bare minimum a way for couple therapy. You deserve respect, especially when he's at fault. He needs to get that he's not a teen anymore.