Regardless. Don't reply back. Delete it. Maybe even consider putting her number on block.
Any response is wrong. You may want to tell her off… and what would that do? Obviously she is feeling resentment for what she did… and having her sit back wondering and never knowing what you thought is the best way of handling this.
I had an ex who treated me like shit when we were together. I broke it off with her and about 4 months later she called me. I went out for a drink with her and let her explain her side of things and that she was sorry. All I could think about is what a waste of time this was. It was over and seeing her try desperately to get back together… was just pathetic.
It’s her time of the month so she’s been very emotional. My guess could’ve been my tone when I said to move on, but I didn’t expect her reaction to be this big
I'm not sure. I love him deeply and I feel safe and cared for with him. He makes me very happy. It's only been relatively recently that this has really started to bother me and I think it's because of some life changes that have recently occurred.
I know he has the propensity to change (given other things he has told me about and that I've seen), it's just hot, especially given his depression.
I think you need to add some kind of finality to the message letting him know it’s over. Maybe, “For me this isn’t something I can forgive or get past. Goodbye.”
Thanks for your response i appreciate it
So, you told him you love that he works hot. So, if he doesn’t work hard, it’s over?
See what I did there?
You’re overthinking.
Women cost you in money, attention, and time. It sounds like maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship right now. They take a lot of effort and time.
Maybe a drunk text.
Regardless. Don't reply back. Delete it. Maybe even consider putting her number on block.
Any response is wrong. You may want to tell her off… and what would that do? Obviously she is feeling resentment for what she did… and having her sit back wondering and never knowing what you thought is the best way of handling this.
I had an ex who treated me like shit when we were together. I broke it off with her and about 4 months later she called me. I went out for a drink with her and let her explain her side of things and that she was sorry. All I could think about is what a waste of time this was. It was over and seeing her try desperately to get back together… was just pathetic.
It’s her time of the month so she’s been very emotional. My guess could’ve been my tone when I said to move on, but I didn’t expect her reaction to be this big
I'm not sure. I love him deeply and I feel safe and cared for with him. He makes me very happy. It's only been relatively recently that this has really started to bother me and I think it's because of some life changes that have recently occurred.
I know he has the propensity to change (given other things he has told me about and that I've seen), it's just hot, especially given his depression.
You could put him through the wringer and ‘discuss’ . Think of twenty or 30 questions about the situation.
Then decide his answers are weak and sad and dump him anyway.
You are way too kind!
I think you need to add some kind of finality to the message letting him know it’s over. Maybe, “For me this isn’t something I can forgive or get past. Goodbye.”
Good luck and I’m sorry this happened.
some people need therapists and self growth, not boyfriends.