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Except he didn't mention anything about sex, he was not ok with the caliber of men she dated. This was just your opportunity to soapbox a shitty opinion.
Update; told the family and her mother. Best option for me is to leave and my father is willingly to help me move my stuff out.
This is nude for me, but it's for the best to keep myself up and running. I got a long life ahead and don't plan on wasting it! Appreciate your words, all of you! I will cherish the memories we had together but they'll become distant just like she has.
I love that my family is willingly to help me get through this, and will be happy for it this day forward!
I usually don’t respond to posts on Reddit but I had to for this one – my heart breaks for you OP. Please try journaling, exercising, eating good foods, talking to someone. It’s important to release the pain. You need to talk to someone. Therapy is also a wonderful option. I’m so sorry you are going through this. You sound like a wonderful father. Keep the hope, I promise there are better days ahead.
On a side note with the legal aspects with the divorce. You record EVERY interaction with this woman (and her family). You try to have everything written down. (So nothing can be twisted). Avoid phone calls if possible (and if it is on a phone call, record the phone call). If she is trying to video record you, you also video record (or audio record) the interaction on your phone. You write down dates of when your ex wife and her family are harassing you with details. I’m not a lawyer, but I am married to one.
Someone close to me went through a bitter custody case in Utah. In Utah, it is legal to record someone without their consent. (Meaning, you can record an interaction without her knowledge). Keep minimal contact with this woman. Try to have every communication to her through your lawyer. If you do have to contact her directly, try to have everything written down (via text or email) if possible, so she can’t twist your words. And be very cautious about what you say in speaking so she can’t try to twist that as well. (And she seems like the type of person who will try to use anything against you in court, especially if she is trying to get you to slip up and say something on video). In court, everything is about evidence. Please make sure you get your attorney involved ASAP to make sure you establish your parental rights. This is so important to do this quickly. Best of luck OP. There are better days ahead, I promise. Check out the legal subreddit too. They’d tell you the same things I did. (And they’d tell you that you need to lawyer up too. But for everything here on out with your ex, use your attorney). You got this, OP. You sound like a great father.
Proportional distribution of expenses is the dictionary definition of “equitable”.
What a vile woman. Good riddance.
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Is he on meds? If not, he should go talk to a doctor. Therapy might not be enough if that’s how low energy and apathetic he is.
Girl your update… You are delusional
If you on-line at home then move out, just not in with your boyfriend. Put yourself and your needs first, you are going to continue seeing him because you want to, but not living with him because you do not want to.
This isn’t just “incompatibility”. She’s extremely codependent, controlling, and outright manipulative. Every time he attempts to set boundaries she outright denies his feelings. This is a very toxic person and OP needs to get out.
So you were 18 and 23 when you got together?
Chances are this kind of gaslighting will or is already more common than you realise.
I think so too..
WTF? No wonder
I mean yeah probably. She ended the relationship pretty easily, so it doesn’t seem like she was in danger. Why couldn’t she just end it right then, instead of cheating on him with you? I wouldn’t trust it.
Gir the love of god, she is cheating on you. Ehy do you bother asking her anything at this point? You can waste years trying to get truth out of a liar.
Leave her.
My ex that I was with for years just ghosted me. He ignored me on Christmas and then dropped off the planet. He's still alive
He's 48
She's a single parent, she will handle being alone with her kid like she did before the guy showed up. I actually did say that if they aren't married or living together, it's more realistic to get time alone. However, he is dating someone with a kid. To expect that to continue while they date into living together and getting married is unrealistic. And realistically, if he wants to get serious with her, eventually weekends alone to himself would disappear regardless. If he truly wants to be with her. He's better off dating someone with no kids. Period. Most women are gonna laugh when he asks fro an entire weekend alone monthly.
but my wife has always been maybe 10-20% sure she wants kids compared to my 70-80%.
Uhhh….idk about you, but this is a common deal-breaker that can be discussed around the 3rd or 4th date….
After talking to her doctor, she decided she was most likely going to get another IUD. I had an extreme overreaction that I didn't anticipate and which was very out of character for me. I got upset and told her that 8 more years of semi-permanent birth control would mean we most likely would never end up having kids
You do realize she could get it removed once she's actually ready for children, right? She can take it out at any time
She said she was never sure she wanted kids so that's fine by her, but I'm not ready to commit to not having kids because…well there are plenty of things my wife said she'd never do that she's now happy to have done (international travel, house projects, etc.)
Okay but those aren't very comparable. You're talking about a lifetime of commitment of being a parent. Never go into a relationship hoping she'd change her mind to yours, because she could just as easily be hoping you'd change your mind to not wanting kids like her.
Edit: Numerous people have commented that my wife “obviously does not want kids” based on the 10-20% confidence level. I would hope that my wife would be honest with me if she was 100% sure she did not want kids, but I can't deny that it seems that way based on how our conversations have ended most of the time. The next conversation we have must end with a firm yes/no.
It sounds like this issue was constantly tabled and pushing off the inevitable potential divorce if you two end up finalizing the reasons
The far more likely explanation for why she is pulling away from you is that she isn’t into you anymore, not because she met someone else or messed around with someone, but because she simply isn’t into you.
You have been pressuring her into being exclusive when she has told you she is not keen on it. She has given you a perfectly reasonable explanation for not wanting to.
The far more likely explanation is that, now that she has had space from you, she is realising that she doesn’t want a relationship with you at all since you both seem to be on different pages about the type of relationship you want. Jumping straight to “there is someone else” is a pretty extreme reaction here based on nothing.