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Squirt Show [Multi Goal]
Date: October 12, 2022
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Squirt Show [Multi Goal]
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I think I'm just venting. He's great in so many other ways – he's completely made me part of his friend group/family, he calls me daily, he plans days out with me, he generally cares for me. We've been together just over a year and I'm his first girlfriend.
However when he's on a night out with his friends, I've asked that I get a quick text just to say everything is good or at least a text when he's home to let me know he's okay. I don't care where he goes, who he's with (within reason obv), how long he's out – I just want that one text so I can go to bed knowing he's okay. If I'm being more honest with myself I'd probably love if he was a drunk texter – I'm used to being in relationships where the guy texts me how much he misses me etc when he's out but I don't get anything like that from this BF, but I've just had to accept that's his character.
He knows my brother got seriously beaten up on a night out in our town a few years ago – it completely shook me up and maybe it's affected me a bit. Also my mum is nervous about us going out and we need to reassure her that we're okay probably more than most parents would need – and I might have got it from her.
Last time he promised he would text me from now on because I went into full on panic mode (he hadn't replied to my text from about 10am that morning and he didn't reply to my texts/phonecalls until 4am that evening. I didn't start texting/phoning til about 11pm as I knew he was going out so didn't want to pester but I did start to panic in the end). So the next day he acknowledged it and said he'd be more mindful.
Last night was his first night out since that fall out and…. no text. I remind him this morning that he promised he'd let me know he's okay and I got angry outbursts of “i'm not used to someone keeping tabs on me” “you need to give me more freedom” “i'm not a child” which I completely get but at the same time – I'm asking for what, 10 seconds of your night to reassure me??
Am I making something out of nothing? Have I got a valid point? He's refused to apologise for making me worry again last night as he's “fed up of waking up from a night out with an angry girlfriend”.
I know I probably sound whiny and anxiety-ridden, but it literally only is when he's on a night out that I need that bit of reassurance. We can go hours with no contact otherwise.
EDIT: So many more responses than I expected so thank you. Struggling to get through them all. I think it's clear to see that it's divided opinion though so I either need to ease up or be with someone more compatible.
Love bombing is normally used as a reaction of guilt from a cheater you just can’t be a “love bomber”. Your description makes you romantic and thoughtful. You are literally what women always complain that they can’t find. Keep doing you and don’t change!
Were you pregnant, injured, lazy or all three? Your replies are msking as little sense as your post.
Starting to see why he's acting the way he is.