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Date: January 20, 2023
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You can break up for reasons other than cheating.
You can break up if you feel like they're not as emotionally invested in you as you are in them.
You can break up if you feel like your approaches to relationships or sex are too different be compatible.
You can break up because you're just not feeling it, regardless of what the reason is or if there even is a reason.
If you're not happy in a relationship, you don't have to wait for a reason to end it, and you don't have to wait until they have technically done something wrong. It sounds like you're just not feeling it, and that's fair. You don't need to hold yourself to any higher standards of evidence for why it should end.
I understand that but inflation is still a lot more worse for everyone right now and I hate that people in the comments are considering me a leech as if I’m 25 years old I’m 18.
I don't expect op to put up with this behavior. It's unfortunate all around for everyone involved. He can't live like this or they will both be miserable. I just don't blame his wife for not being happy anymore, chronic pain is probably one of the hardest things someone can deal with
Did you really expect him to give up everything to be with you, his gf of only 1 year? Would you move there to be with him? Why isn’t that an option ?
we really want to have a child
And that child will never be his priority.
What a shame to put children through this.
Call the police on him and go NC. This is manipulative abuse. Plain and simple.
Don't waste your Time dating fuckboys
Thanks for your answer. I can see your perspective as well. Yes I did tell her repeatedly that I'd make it back. Whether that was out of stupidity and desperation, I still told her that. But a lot has changed since then. I did figure out she was in fact fooling around on me. So yeah, I should consider those factors as well and decide if it's worth paying her so much money that would eat my savings, just for the sake of keeping my word. Even if I was stupid at the time I said that and she was an “asshole” like you said.
Idk man just tell him he's being clingy and he needs to pump the brakes. He might be thinking that because you guys decided to have a kid you want to have him too and that you're gonna be a perfect little family together.
Personally I think you owe it to the one person who did not consent to be part this situation to at try and make it work but honestly it sounds like you two just aren't compatible enough or mature enough to do anything but be co parents