I’m gonna push against the tide here, and say I don’t see anything wrong here. It doesn’t sound like you’re stopping her from doing things her age; on the contrary, she’s trying to actively involve you. It doesn’t sound like you’re forcing her to take on a role in your child’s life, or trying to trap her with a baby or something like that. If you feel young enough to do the things she wants you both to do together, I say live it for as long as it goes my dude! If it’s a short thing, so be it. If you guys end up spending the rest of your lives together, then more for you both!
Don’t listen to her friend (singular, it sounds like her other friends weren’t trying to meddle in your girlfriends business), she’s had one too many, is probably feeling a bit jealous if she’s single herself, and wanted to vocalise how she felt (which she has every right to do). Please don’t take it to heart, and make it come between you and your girlfriend. Be honest with her how that comment made you feel, and accept any reassurance she has that she’s happy in yours relationship. The trust her and move on!
Yes. Definitely drop him too. What a shallow and rude thing to say. He's more concerned with the number than how you look even, which is just stupid.
I can understand people having/wanting a certain lifestyle and wanting a partner with similar goals. But being willing to leave you over the number on the scale while you're in the process of working on your fitness after an injury is just….ridiculous. You can do, and deserve, better.
I've been told that before and to makes things worse she's told me that she would change to have a healthier relationship yet she doesn't. She always thinks negative and everything I do at this point gets her mad.
Is that true? Discovering someone to be homosexual being valid legal defense? Interested to understand this better. Source?
Good luck.
“Is attempted rape grounds for a breakup?” There I fixed your title for you
Good point
Keep the job. Dump the controlling boyfriend. Working in a bar is still honest work and it's not his choice where you work.
I’m gonna push against the tide here, and say I don’t see anything wrong here. It doesn’t sound like you’re stopping her from doing things her age; on the contrary, she’s trying to actively involve you. It doesn’t sound like you’re forcing her to take on a role in your child’s life, or trying to trap her with a baby or something like that. If you feel young enough to do the things she wants you both to do together, I say live it for as long as it goes my dude! If it’s a short thing, so be it. If you guys end up spending the rest of your lives together, then more for you both!
Don’t listen to her friend (singular, it sounds like her other friends weren’t trying to meddle in your girlfriends business), she’s had one too many, is probably feeling a bit jealous if she’s single herself, and wanted to vocalise how she felt (which she has every right to do). Please don’t take it to heart, and make it come between you and your girlfriend. Be honest with her how that comment made you feel, and accept any reassurance she has that she’s happy in yours relationship. The trust her and move on!
Good luck to you both, I hope it all works out!
Yes. Definitely drop him too. What a shallow and rude thing to say. He's more concerned with the number than how you look even, which is just stupid.
I can understand people having/wanting a certain lifestyle and wanting a partner with similar goals. But being willing to leave you over the number on the scale while you're in the process of working on your fitness after an injury is just….ridiculous. You can do, and deserve, better.
You're welcome. I'm also in a recovered relationship. It's a ton of work to get that trust back. So don't squander it.
I've been told that before and to makes things worse she's told me that she would change to have a healthier relationship yet she doesn't. She always thinks negative and everything I do at this point gets her mad.