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Sloopy Deepthroat [147 tokens remaining]
Date: October 12, 2022
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Sloopy Deepthroat [147 tokens remaining]
As you said, sexuality isnt fluid.
If it brings you happiness and joy then OFC! Life is short!
Wow, the people who are all like, “that isn't the reaction of someone who isn't cheating” … that is some internet brain.
If you came home and your SO was like, “where were you, I tracked your location. Are you cheating?” You wouldn't react strongly? You wouldn't feel vulnerable? You wouldn't worry about trust in your relationship or question how your SO perceives you?
OP, talk to your GF. Give her the benefit of the doubt. Give her space, but tell her this is very important to you and when she's ready, the two of you need to have an honest and mature conversation.
Personally, I start crying (and try VERY very hot not to which often makes it worse) when I feel vulnerable. It is embarrassing, but it is a trauma/anxiety reaction I've had since childhood. I've done it in public, with strangers, loved ones, bosses, etc. It doesn't even have to be a bad situation! I've done it when receiving compliments! I feel vulnerable > my body/brain interprets this as unsafe > triggers my fight/flight response > I cry.
OP, if you love this woman, you need to be able to talk with her. Not just accuse her or suspect her or come at her, but patiently TALK with her.
And if she is closing herself off, just keep being honest on your side. Tell her it's important to talk about. Accept that you may have come at this the wrong way, but that you were hurt.
If you love her, you need to have empathy for her in this situation if you expect trust and empathy for yourself. – Either she wasn't cheating and you look like an asshole who monitors her movements and accuses her over some phone app's glitchy code, or – A woman you wanted to share your life with may not feel quite the same about you, or – Something else is going on and she doesn't trust you enough to tell you
This can either be a moment of growth for both of you, regardless of the outcome of your relationship, or just be another shallow story in a life where no one learns anything and the other person is a caricature you talk about to people when you're drunk.
Never had a problem with him using social media. My problem was how he went about it. He lied and said he deleted it and only used it behind my back. I told him if he wants social media use social media. I have no problem. It’s the sneaky behaviour behind it.
This is like the perfect moment to use “if he wanted to, he would”.
My BF is an extremely independent person who needs plenty of alone time. He likes to be spontaneous and sometimes forgets the time. BUT I ALWAYS KNOW WHERE HE IS AND WITH WHOM. not because I constantly ask, but because we’re in a relationship and this is how you treat your partner; you tell them what you’re up to. You don’t have to announce everything the second you do it, but when we come home we tell the other what we did all day.
HE IS ACTIVELY NOT TELLING YOU WHERE HE LIVES. He is actively not sharing this information with you. He decides over and over again, that he does not want you to know. Every normal person would instantly get divorced, if their partner pulled crap like this.
Girl you definitely need a reality check.
I appreciate your viewpoint, it’s different than what others have told me irl. It bothers me the Snap wasn’t opened because he put in more effort before. It’s only been a week since I’ve known him but he’s already putting in a lot less effort. Here’s an update: he did end up eventually opening it but he didn’t answer the question I sent him so I just ended up not replying to him. I feel like he’s too immature (in reasons I haven’t said in this text post) and lacks the communication I need for even a fwb. I feel like if I genuinely liked him and wanted a relationship I would attempt to see what’s going on, but I don’t want to invest and put too much energy into just a hook up. This has already driven me too crazy for something that was supposed to be just fun. But I’d like to hear your thoughts.
I think her BEHAVIOUR has been unstable, I don’t think she’s an unstable person traditionally. But if this behaviour comes to define her then yes she would be unstable in my opinion. Why should I lie just because im dating her, I’d say the same about anyone else.
Here's some bad news for you… Your girlfriend says she is over her promiscuous past and that's fine. But she has made that past her own defining quality. It's the one thing she brandishes like a sword and shield at all possible times. Most people don't care, but by telling everyone she meets, she's focusing on that side as what defines who she is. If she is truly over it, shut the hell up and just move on and be the “you” that you want to be. Your coworkers and random dudes at a bar are not her AA group or psychologist that she needs to be telling that to. In other words, yes the guy who made fun of her is wrong, but when she offers up such shit in a conversation, she brings it on herself.
Woah she is a sociopath. Very very careful and avoid her at all costs