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Nope buddy you aren’t getting away with this bullshit.
I'm not trying to get away with anything. I'm trying for advice, not empathy. Trust me, I have judged myself a thousand times in my head for this and it is way worse then anything I could read here.
Trying to be less abysmal and to get help.
She needs to understand this is your home as well as your dog's. The cat can't move in at all. It would be better for everyone if she moves out.
We need more info. From what i see you two have been together for less than a year, he moved in together too early in my opinion and i suppose he was paying at your place some of the expenses. With that, i don't think i put your name too.
First, he is the one taking the loan, not you. I understand if he expects you to pay some of the expenses when you live with him at the same time as he was living with you.
Second. You two are not married, and if he is the one paying for the loan and if you two break up for some reason he loses a lot of money in that. Trust is built with time and this is a great step with a relationship of less than a year i would not commit myself to such a degree.
Third. I don't know what is his opinion about money but for me, i like to protect the money i earn through my own means. I can put a joint account when i am in a relationship but i like to separate finances because i take the value of money as the time i worked to earn that is lost forever.
Yeah that is possibly true. It hurts like hell to have to admit, I can’t really take it in honestly, too painful.
I would much rather be the problem here, that at least I can change. If he’s the problem then I will have to go through a breakup and it will totally break me..
I assume he is the breadwinner. Do you get any spending money for free use? Do you know what your households finances look like? You should start looking into the finances and have a say about the budget.
It is my first time reaching out. Besides telling our parents to let my brother know happy birthday/merry Christmas
Don't you understand how your brother would feel? You didn't really give an actual crap for years….and now the first time you bother reaching out directly is to invite him to the wedding of the two people who stabbed him in the back…. great.
If you wanted to rekindle your relationship with him, you should have reached out a lot earlier,without your fiancée being involved.
I was thinking of going to my parents and having them tell him I respect whatever choice he makes but It would mean a lot to me if he attends
No matter what reddit says, you're going to do this anyway.
Its better to do it now and let the healing process begin than to keep both of you in this any long where you're unhappy. It sucks but I was strung along for a few months because my fiance didn't have the balls. It sucked and it just made it take longer for me to get on with my life and meet someone new. Its kind of a mercy thing if you want to think about it that way, coming from the other side of the coin. i'm not sure if you were both on the same page on the engagement but if it gets brought up in the conversation.. lesson learned about popping the question so soon I suppose.
Hope everything goes well. You can do it.
There's some part of me that feels he might not want to talk to me or something.
It's possible, but you'll never know if you don't try! You guys both had the same shitty dad and I'm sure you could both use some comradery.
Just reach out! Say hey Ted, it's been a while, I would love to reconnect and see how you're doing. Wanna grab lunch/coffee? Worst case – he doesn't respond or denies, in which case you're exactly right back where you are now! So what's the harm!
I will caution you – you sound like you're worried about him, which is good – but don't make this about wanting to connect so you can help him/fix him or whatever. Obviously you care about him, but he will smell that from a mile away. Your goal is to reconnect with him because family is important.
To be honest I think a lot of people are changing their minds about having kids recently. We’re in a mass extinction event, what are we bringing them into?
Yea honestly I don't think she's being completely truthful with her other friend as she's already been dishonest with a mutual friend you have.
So what else has she done that she was so willing to “allow” you to cheat on her to make it even? I hate to say it bro but she's probably done or shared more than just photos.
Think on that and demand to see ALL of her texts with this dude. I can guarantee when you read/see/process that you will understand. Just be warned that she was most likely doing things with him/for him (and herself) that she's either not willing to do for you or didn't want to do with you or worse she did things you've asked her to do with you and she didn't and did it for him.
Tell her to turn over all the texts and photos and then re-evaluate how you feel.
Segue. Unless you're recommending OP get a little upright scooter. Segue, pronounced “seg-way”.
Sorry for the pedantic bs!! But i lol'd at the opening sentence.
let her apply to the loan. They will deny her immediately and then it’s not an issue.