As you get older, age differences should feel less important, not more.
If you think that 4 years older than you is a big difference then shouldn't you feel that 4 years younger than you is an even bigger difference?
She's either in high school or was very recently, you've been out of high school for four years. Why don't you feel that you're a lot older than her? Why do you feel closer to 18 than to 26?
If you were the sole provider, I'd put at least one homemade warm meal a day in front of you and if you carried your laundry into the bin, I'd take it from there. Most wives do more while having full time jobs. If she wants to on-line alone, let her.
thanks for such a detailed response. After reading it all, I'm not quite sure it applies to my situation, I didn't do anything from that list. So may I continue wondering wtf has happened. Or perhaps I shouldn't even try, since she says she doesn't even understand herself?♂️
I can see why it's considered an unstable factor in a relationship but I did make it known that sex or physical love is really important to me. So it's not like I'm now coming to her and saying why aren't we having sex and getting upset about it. It was a known desire of mine the whole time. I wouldn't say I was mostly in it for sex because we do have a lot in common and it's not like I don't love her still. Just as a 25 year old it's driving me crazy not having sex at least a little bit more than what we are currently.
Exactly. I mean if that’s the case though and there’s some type of dysfunction that he wants to hide, then atleast share that with me instead of beating around the bush and acting like it’s NORMAL to wait years to introduce someone to your family ??♀️
Unnecessary sarcasm.
As you get older, age differences should feel less important, not more.
If you think that 4 years older than you is a big difference then shouldn't you feel that 4 years younger than you is an even bigger difference?
She's either in high school or was very recently, you've been out of high school for four years. Why don't you feel that you're a lot older than her? Why do you feel closer to 18 than to 26?
If you were the sole provider, I'd put at least one homemade warm meal a day in front of you and if you carried your laundry into the bin, I'd take it from there. Most wives do more while having full time jobs. If she wants to on-line alone, let her.
He wanted to sleep around while you sat at home grieving. He’s a hypocrite and he’s pathetic.
thanks for such a detailed response. After reading it all, I'm not quite sure it applies to my situation, I didn't do anything from that list. So may I continue wondering wtf has happened. Or perhaps I shouldn't even try, since she says she doesn't even understand herself?♂️
So was her behavior but that didn’t seem to be a problem for her or you.
I can see why it's considered an unstable factor in a relationship but I did make it known that sex or physical love is really important to me. So it's not like I'm now coming to her and saying why aren't we having sex and getting upset about it. It was a known desire of mine the whole time. I wouldn't say I was mostly in it for sex because we do have a lot in common and it's not like I don't love her still. Just as a 25 year old it's driving me crazy not having sex at least a little bit more than what we are currently.
Ask your husband why he thinks so low of you that you can be influenced to cheat
Mark smells like a projecting cheater himself.
Exactly. I mean if that’s the case though and there’s some type of dysfunction that he wants to hide, then atleast share that with me instead of beating around the bush and acting like it’s NORMAL to wait years to introduce someone to your family ??♀️
I remember your earlier post… go easy on yourself, but let the experience guide you. I'm sure it will shape your life in positive ways.