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Show ass [GOAL MET]
Date: October 30, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
Show ass [GOAL MET]
Thank you for the thoughtful response. I appreciate your comment.
Trust me, breakups are wayyy easier if the only thing you have to worry about is breaking a lease or finding a new place to online, rather than going through a divorce on top of that. Cohabitating these days is pretty easy and fairly low stakes in a way that marriage is not. Your partner is no doubt acutely aware of this.
My main bit of advice is to shut down your lawyer brain while at home, for now. Don’t point out logical inconsistency and just do what you can when you can. If she’s got a double standard on phone use or division of labor, that’s a problem you can deal with later.
Understand that she is deeply and profoundly miserable with where her choices have led her, even if she wouldn’t change any of them. So be as supportive loving and present as you possibly can and just try to hide your resentment.
Now long term that’s not healthy and if she is treating you like this in six months, get to couples counseling. But for a few months your home life should be about helping her feel like her life doesn’t suck, and your feelings can wait. Not forever but for now.
I know right? People falling in love and being happily together is just so wrong.
Reading your last sentence I will have to correct you.
Break up with him to save him from you, someone that decides her partners based on her parents approval. He simply deserves better.
this is such a great perspective i rlly appreciate it 🙂
100% all of this.
Okay. Your behavior really does not sound appropriate for a relationship. Your friend is a college-aged girl whom you're spending the night with to assemble Ikea furniture? That is not an urgent request, and there was no reason to have to immediately drive over after work at night to tend to said request. Especially leaving your partner home alone with your baby.
That being said, I am alarmed by your post history. You mention in several posts that your partner has OCD and uses it as a justification to force you to receive a rectal thermometer reading on a daily basis because she is terrified of COVID.
Your partner makes you insert a thermometer in your rectum every day against your will, to the point it makes you sore and develop a rash? That is not okay, and not normal in the slightest. I'm concerned.