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Melania, 29 y.o.
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Date: November 24, 2022
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Not controlling it’s a boundary and very respectable one
To help host a bridal part that you're not going to be in?
Well chances are you're not in it and bow you have the choice to back out of the surprise engagement party. Distinct means nothing I've asked distant relatives that live! out of state to be in my wedding party.
I think they have their own click among the click and you're not in it.
if Dude feels comfortable humping you in front of your mother, that tells you everything you need to know
My dude if you don't wanna get pegged then tell her no. If she argues remind her that no means no, even if it is a man telling a woman no. It's still a no.
Stalking harassment and whatever else they could tack on there
Sorry, just saw the edit. Thank you, I appreciate the thought. I should be open to other career options, as well. I just haven't had good experiences really, but if I can manage to get in a different field, it might be different
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My boyfriend is a home body. He doesn’t like hiking. I love it. He’s clearly not into it but he does it because he loves me. Just because she’s not ecstatic about it doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to do it with you
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You mess up your wife’s and baby’s sleep. Pick a better time to go to sleep or yes sleep in the other room. lol you really had to type this out and get other opinions?? Are you dumb? If not, you are truly an ass.
Not everyone can function without proper sleep. Next time the baby wakes up, YOU put them back to sleep.
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Your BF has just told you he fundamentally doesn't like you and doesn't want to have sex with you. Not sure why you are doing anything other than moving on? Seriously, end the relationship and find someone who actually likes and desires you
Are you dating my gf lmao
Thank you. I really need to do this 🙁
I agree. So many are calling him immature and insecure. He's hurt she's lied for 8 years. No man or woman would be happy with being lied to for 8 years.
Have you guys discussed boundaries? If have, and this is crossing one of those boundaries, then have a talk with her and let her know that it bothers you. If you haven't had a talk about boundaries, then she isn't a mind reader, have a talk with her and let her know it bothers you.
If she tells you you're insecure or controlling (and maybe you are) then let her know that it still bothers you and you would like to find a compromise. You're both young, learn to communicate with each other.
No. NO. It is not your fault for “not being clear with him about children”. His behavior has been inexcusable. Abusive. Criminal. And you have done NOTHING to deserve it. If you can still access the morning after pill, please do. If you do become pregnant and need help accessing abortion services, planned parenthood.com is a good resource. Please do not stay with this man. He does not love you in the way you should be loved. What he feels is something else. You don’t need it.
That's what you learn on a first aid course. And kissing frostbitten mountaineers' hands.
The art of thinking you're so special that your presence in the equation will change everything.
I'm so glad OP got a clear view of who she could trust and who she couldn't. Seems like her friend list was overdue for a clearance sale.
Do you think he still cares? He is looks at my posts right away but if he did care why did he keep me hidden/ on the low for a year?
Congratulations! And yes, YTA. Lesson learned. If you love someone and want them in your life as a permanent fixture, major life decisions need to be made together.
If she had decided to take a job in Italy for 4 years, without checking in with you, while you languished away in the states waiting around on her to start your loves together, how do you think that would have made you feel about how much she cares about you?
Love involves immediately thinking about how a major life decision will affect you BOTH – if you're truly in love. Love isn't just words, it's in every action and decision you make. Now you know.
Stop being a weirdo and date women your own age.
Men who date much younger women are just looking for somebody naive to control
Because it’s their home, not a hotel?
Big nonce energy
It is considered a form of sexual abuse and that's by law. He's a putrid rotten cunt for doing that to you the disrespect is astonishing:(
Lol yeah, the dad knows.
The other nice thing about talking to her about what it would take is that it forces her to think the question through and understand what her fears are. Because her parents sound like lovely people; it seems like her fears may have less to do with her parents and more her own feelings about her identity.
You wanting her to change her body for you is mean
Dudes just getting pre-wedding nerves. Lots of people do. I wouldn't be throwing away 8 years too easily. $100 says he'll realise what a tool he's being
She takes her well-being and happiness over your happiness/wellbeing.
This helped. I guess you are right. Idk why I just feel so negatively. I’m more hurt he chose city A when the company also offered him B. I promise they aren’t small cities
your girlfriend just got sexually assaulted and you're still friends with him?? why are you fine with someone doing that to the person you supposedly love?
What’s your goal with this relationship
Is it really that crazy that people believed that she didn't cheat with a random masseuse at a spa? People getting aroused because of a massage is quite common and most happy-ending spas are targeted towards men.
But honestly, this is probably a fetish post and/or creative writing. A lot of details simply don't make sense, like why OP's gf would even tell him the half-truth in the first place when she could've said nothing at all. Or why her shirt has dirt on it when she should've been in a robe and/or towel.
There is no way the fiance asked for anything. Logically, it just doesn't make sense. An happily engaged woman with a satisfying sex life who has had multiple massages in the past decided today is the day she's going to proposition a massage therapist. Then this licensed therapist at a reputable/ nice spa risks his job for a few extra bucks. Come on!
She is still lying, assume the worst. Trust and respect is broken.
Why do you need to marry so quickly? Are you pregnant? Are you both deeply religious? Even then it barely makes sense
Always a possibility.
My ex-SIL is like this and always kept wondering why boyfriends would cheat or break up with her. Then she had an all-out hoe phase while I was around to see it but got on me for wearing comfortable clothing inside the house while I was still married to her brother. Glad I’m not married to him either because he’s his own nutcase.
I’m not saying this girl doesn’t deserve her own happiness but she’s literally on a freight train that’s going to crash and burn. Worst case scenario she stops once one of these guys gives her an STD or herpes and she’ll realize how insanely impulsive and careless she’s being with her own health in general.
But you can only feel so bad for someone for a while before you have to cut the cord for your own mental health. She can live! her life how she wants but she has no right to subject any friends or family that genuinely care about her to watch her burn herself out like a madman.
I didn't read the 6 weeks, even though it's the first sentence.
Yeah, I suppose your right – though this type of behavior was normal, simply not as common, prior.
I don't know, my brain seems to want to do some serous mental gymnastics to justify it. As long as leaving is off the table, held accountable or at least a serous conversation more than necessary I'll admit.
I'm not sure if you can take anti-depressants pregnant, but I'll concede you are correct. A serous heart to heart at the very least is needed.
I’ve had to push these things out of him that he has a house that’s falling apart but he doesn’t have the money to fix it and is kind of embarrassed.
If you are only finding out about this 3 years into your relationship, does that mean you and your boyfriend haven't met each other in person before?
I don't find the idea of this being the reason for your boyfriend's lies to be all that weird. A lot of men are hardwired to believe that they need to be strong providers. If your boyfriend is struggling with his finances and keeping up with house repairs, he may feel like he can't fully live! up to that image and give you what he thinks you deserve.
Even if you have actually met in person before and you have been to his house, the long distance element of your relationship has made it possible for him to hide all these things and keep up what in his mind may seem like an illusion.
Now, this may not reflect the truth and maybe you don't care about any of these things, but that doesn't mean he doesn't care.
I don’t have family (that didn’t abuse me as a child) and I don’t have friends. I haven’t hung out with anyone since 2013. I haven’t been in contact with any of the people I knew as a teen. I can’t really make friends. He gets jealous if I do so I just don’t.
Bottom line is her behavior makes both you and your boyfriend inappropriate. You’ve told her of this, her behavior has continued and she’s continue to make excuses for herself. Now is the time to cut her off
yeah, kind of, tbh, but not exactly. I think you should seek therapy sis. you got SA'd and gaslighted. like another commenter says here, please love and respect yourself.
the MF you call a boyfriend doesn't love or respect you.
he went to a party at her house that you weren't invited to! how the FUCK do you even begin to consider that acceptable? the thought of my partner doing that is actually absurd, fam. like bonafide absurdity. just wouldn't ever happen. (especially since technically they would be my ex anyway the second they left for the party)
just saying OP. you do kind of look dumb based on some of what you've said in this thread, but that doesn't mean you actually are dumb. a lot of people internalize trauma into a delusion that they deserved it or its normal or that the abuser has 'good qualities that make up for it' and so forth.
1) dump the sack of shit 2) T H E R A P Y asap
No need to apologize. I was expecting a harsh answer.
He doesn't want to marry partner #1 and thinks that it will be this way for all possible partners.
Then he meets partner #2, who is a better fit for him, and marriage is on the table.
I was in the exact same situation with my ex. She ended up opening an OF account, making way more money than me. Then dumped me for one of her fans she was having an affair with. If I had to go back I don't think I would support her initiative to open an OF account again. I would rather she not contribute and I get to spoil her with gifts and all the things she loves