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I don’t know. I don’t want a girl to be out there thinking my bf is a creep or something? I’m afraid that he isn’t who he said he was back then in college.
Forget the snapping and texting, keep that to a minimum until y’all meet in person. Propose a date, time, place, something thoughtful. She’s either down or she’s not. If she can’t make it she’ll propose another time. Should give you the answers you need. Enough mind games!
Nothing here makes sense… Just be glad you have less dead weight to carry around with this irresponsible trash bag. Build your life, get a good lawyer for custody agreements and be done with his sorry ass. What a trashcan ?
Stop. Of course what he did is better than being assaulted by an intruder. Please don't get the fact that she is terrified by op's response with her wanting him to not have protected her. That is not what this is about at all.
Logically she should feel safe with op but due to her trauma she is terrified. Trauma has nothing to do with logic. She saw op fly into an aggressive rage and absolutely mess up somebody, whether he deserved it or not isn't a part of why she feels this way.
She feels this way because it brought up some traumatic memories for her. And even with therapy things that trigger your trauma responses can be very intense and hot to get through. She should go to therapy and op should be understanding. Trauma doesn't just disappear, It may fade with time but things like this will trigger a response.
TO OP: Please be patient with her and also focus on yourself as well. She loves you, But this has definitely brought up some traumatic memories that she needs to work through. Be a safe person for her. AND ALSO What you went through was also terrifying, and you should definitely report it to the police and make sure you feel ok.
If you don't find my advice useful then feel free to ignore it.
Thing is, when dealing with partners with mental/mood disorders, there's very little you can do if they don't help themselves first. You'll just be blindsided soon if you keep this mindset.
I don't think it was malicious and I don't think it's relationship ending for me. I just don't have the words to emphasize how much this hurt my feelings and how it's not about the festival – it was about the attitude and lack of inclusion. His logic is “nothing has happened yet” and there's still plenty of time to include me.
A few times, yeah. We’ve had some pretty big discussions lately and he acknowledges it at the time but it isn’t being put into practice. I’m the only one making real change here, that’s how I feel from my perspective.
I don’t know. I don’t want a girl to be out there thinking my bf is a creep or something? I’m afraid that he isn’t who he said he was back then in college.
i went to a family thanksgiving after 2 dates. OP doesn’t state ages but if they’re college aged things like that happen all the time.
i’ve probably wasted the past 6 months being disrespected
I completely understand. But 6 months is a good time to reevaluate your relationship. Don't make it 7 months. Start the new year fresh.
Forget the snapping and texting, keep that to a minimum until y’all meet in person. Propose a date, time, place, something thoughtful. She’s either down or she’s not. If she can’t make it she’ll propose another time. Should give you the answers you need. Enough mind games!
Nothing here makes sense… Just be glad you have less dead weight to carry around with this irresponsible trash bag. Build your life, get a good lawyer for custody agreements and be done with his sorry ass. What a trashcan ?
Stop. Of course what he did is better than being assaulted by an intruder. Please don't get the fact that she is terrified by op's response with her wanting him to not have protected her. That is not what this is about at all.
Logically she should feel safe with op but due to her trauma she is terrified. Trauma has nothing to do with logic. She saw op fly into an aggressive rage and absolutely mess up somebody, whether he deserved it or not isn't a part of why she feels this way.
She feels this way because it brought up some traumatic memories for her. And even with therapy things that trigger your trauma responses can be very intense and hot to get through. She should go to therapy and op should be understanding. Trauma doesn't just disappear, It may fade with time but things like this will trigger a response.
TO OP: Please be patient with her and also focus on yourself as well. She loves you, But this has definitely brought up some traumatic memories that she needs to work through. Be a safe person for her. AND ALSO What you went through was also terrifying, and you should definitely report it to the police and make sure you feel ok.
If you don't find my advice useful then feel free to ignore it.
Thing is, when dealing with partners with mental/mood disorders, there's very little you can do if they don't help themselves first. You'll just be blindsided soon if you keep this mindset.
Just a warning. Feel free to ignore what I said.
I don't think it was malicious and I don't think it's relationship ending for me. I just don't have the words to emphasize how much this hurt my feelings and how it's not about the festival – it was about the attitude and lack of inclusion. His logic is “nothing has happened yet” and there's still plenty of time to include me.
A few times, yeah. We’ve had some pretty big discussions lately and he acknowledges it at the time but it isn’t being put into practice. I’m the only one making real change here, that’s how I feel from my perspective.
This person doesn’t know the meaning of consent and thus can’t be trusted with nudes.
There it is, she wants to open the relationship so she'd feel ok about cheating.