Your marriage is based on a lie. He knew you'd leave which is why he didn't come clean before, he told you now because he thinks you won't leave because you're married.
Some couples can survive infidelity but it's not without challenges but I would say most of them probably came clean on their own but I may be wrong. Cheating is bad but lying about cheating, allowing you to marry him under false pretenses, and only coming clean when forced to do so may be the worst part.
Ultimately you need to make a decision that you know you can live with and not regret. You know yourself and to me it sounds like you've already made up your mind to leave but want outside opinions first and there's nothing wrong with that. It's messing with your mental health and that needs to take precedence, you can always try counseling but you have to do what's best for you. Good luck OP!
I’m a firm believer that the discover page is very accurate. I got on instagram for the first time in forever and I interact with ONE video of someone decorating a cake and my entire discover page was cake decorating lol I don’t even bake!!! I’m very sorry, but that’s everything you need to know right there.. please run
I'd highly suggest posting this in r/polyamory and/or r/nonmonogamy for more open-minded responses.
That being said – just stop sleeping with them?? I have friends who I've slept with and continue to just be platonic friends with. Since you have unrequited feelings for Jen, though, I'd say take a break from seeing her in person completely until you're able to separate your romantic feelings from the friendship you share.
Got it. So if my voice gets loud during an argument that’s abuse. Interesting. I completely disagree but thanks for your input!
Wow this truly is pathetic.
What safety reasons?
Do you have random people sleeping on the living room sofa?
Just sleep with the bedroom door open.
OP- look into bidets. We have sex more often after we got one because it’s easier to clean up afterward and doesn’t require a shower everytime
GF
You’re a real piece of work. Damn wtf
Your marriage is based on a lie. He knew you'd leave which is why he didn't come clean before, he told you now because he thinks you won't leave because you're married.
Some couples can survive infidelity but it's not without challenges but I would say most of them probably came clean on their own but I may be wrong. Cheating is bad but lying about cheating, allowing you to marry him under false pretenses, and only coming clean when forced to do so may be the worst part.
Ultimately you need to make a decision that you know you can live with and not regret. You know yourself and to me it sounds like you've already made up your mind to leave but want outside opinions first and there's nothing wrong with that. It's messing with your mental health and that needs to take precedence, you can always try counseling but you have to do what's best for you. Good luck OP!
I’m a firm believer that the discover page is very accurate. I got on instagram for the first time in forever and I interact with ONE video of someone decorating a cake and my entire discover page was cake decorating lol I don’t even bake!!! I’m very sorry, but that’s everything you need to know right there.. please run
Her time… wasting her money on me while i cheated, and spend recklessly
I'd highly suggest posting this in r/polyamory and/or r/nonmonogamy for more open-minded responses.
That being said – just stop sleeping with them?? I have friends who I've slept with and continue to just be platonic friends with. Since you have unrequited feelings for Jen, though, I'd say take a break from seeing her in person completely until you're able to separate your romantic feelings from the friendship you share.