Account with no post history. OP says they used a throwaway because ‘their family follows them on reddit.’ (Wtf?) over the top cluelessness ‘my lesbian gf removed lesbian from her insta, what could it mean?’ Fake troupey post. Posting on general RA and not one of the lesbian subs.
Maybe ask yourself, why are you in such a rush to defend such an obviously fake post?
Tbh, you know your gf best, and I would definitely recommend trying to talk to her about it unless you really think she wants to be surprised… Did she love the ring and is she wearing it now? Do you think she would want a new ring? If she wasn't thrilled with the first proposal but nonetheless still said yes and wanted to get married to you, and you're planning on redoing the proposal… personally, I think it makes sense to get a new ring, because you want to do everything new again. Plus I think it might be awkward to ask her for the ring back to redo the proposal, but obviously this is dependent on your relationship and what you think she wants! I don't think she would say no to two rings, but I don't know her! (Although my dad got my mom two rings, i thought that was quite audacious of my mom when i found out but they're still together ?)
So she started jerking you off, stopped, you gave her your credit card, then she continued jerking you off until you finished?
Both of you are still immature. Your current relationship is going nowhere as it's filled with unnecessary teen drama.
Account with no post history. OP says they used a throwaway because ‘their family follows them on reddit.’ (Wtf?) over the top cluelessness ‘my lesbian gf removed lesbian from her insta, what could it mean?’ Fake troupey post. Posting on general RA and not one of the lesbian subs.
Maybe ask yourself, why are you in such a rush to defend such an obviously fake post?
And he needs to learn appropriate ways to respond to people…
This is red flags
call the police and press charges. This is a really fucked up thing to do and IT'S AGAINST THE LAW.
Tbh, you know your gf best, and I would definitely recommend trying to talk to her about it unless you really think she wants to be surprised… Did she love the ring and is she wearing it now? Do you think she would want a new ring? If she wasn't thrilled with the first proposal but nonetheless still said yes and wanted to get married to you, and you're planning on redoing the proposal… personally, I think it makes sense to get a new ring, because you want to do everything new again. Plus I think it might be awkward to ask her for the ring back to redo the proposal, but obviously this is dependent on your relationship and what you think she wants! I don't think she would say no to two rings, but I don't know her! (Although my dad got my mom two rings, i thought that was quite audacious of my mom when i found out but they're still together ?)