Your best bet would be to THINK RATIONALLY and avoid avoid avoid.
I'm baffled with the “just tell her” comments. These people are insane. Who in their right mind would mess with a police officer??? The power dynamic is too unbalanced. He could turn OP's life into absolutely hell. As you wisely said it's time to THINK RATIONALLY!!!
There’s more there and it’s likely that he physically cheated on you as he does not value your relationship or you.
You were his ticket into the country. He has no real value for you.
Yes divorce does impact children but they also will see a dysfunctional marriage if you stay with him.
No of same sex. Mostly industries that are predominantly male sending crews of 2-4 to work outdoors, stuff like that.
Your best bet would be to THINK RATIONALLY and avoid avoid avoid.
I'm baffled with the “just tell her” comments. These people are insane. Who in their right mind would mess with a police officer??? The power dynamic is too unbalanced. He could turn OP's life into absolutely hell. As you wisely said it's time to THINK RATIONALLY!!!
Fair. I did not threaten her physical safety nor have I ever threatened anyone's physical safety.