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SHAKE MY WORLD & MY ASS WITH UR TIPS♥ #brunette #anal #latina #lovense #cum #squirt #teen18+ #new [Goal Race]
Date: October 17, 2022
AmateurPub
If you trust that you're honest with each other, how would a conversation go if he wanted to hang out with a female friend and he told you that she was just a platonic friend? Would you believe him? Would he believe you if you told him that your male friend was just a friend?
“Azul, I do trust my partner. It's them other people I don't trust.”
As long as you trust your partner, other people's intentions do not matter. Because your partner will keep boundaries in check one way or another.
He did say he regreted it.
He doesn't need to answer cause Jo one ever cared for his answer
Updateme!
Yeah, I intend to. But it's gonna be hot because all 3 of us will be hanging out together and I can't just ignore him :/ especially since my boyfriend himself wants me to get along with his best friend and hang out with them
Or maybe like you, they didn't like him following and commenting inappropriately on women in lingerie and fitness models pictures.
The only people who work at Womens Refuge places are very unlikely to report this back to your fiances family, regardless of their connection.
Is your fiance good with technology?
If he isn't, search for resources live in an incognito window, or delete your search history when you are done.
If he is fairly good, or you're not sure how good he is, you can pay for a VPN (just say you wanted to watch Netflix UK or something), or look up resources using the computers at the library.
Alternatively, maybe someone from Canada can respond to this- but here in NZ, we have some websites (e.g., The Warehouse) that has a little icon in the websites footer (looks like a half white half greyish green circle with a picture of a computer inside it)- it will open up information and resources from Womens Refuge without it showing up in your internet browser. I imagine Canada has websites with these too, but I wouldn't know them personally.
I don't know if this will reach you due to the amount of comments.
I had a boyfriend who would run out of the house occasionally during some disagreements. A lot of it was his own insecurities and his inability to actually communicate. He wanted me to look for him and for a handful of times I did. Like, literally take off out the house barefoot at 1am. This was one of the most mentally abused relationships that I had ever been in. Eventually I stopped chasing after him. I didn't have the energy. Once I stopped fighting to find him and win him back is when I started recognizing my life needed changes. I was with him for 5 years, so you bet your ass I tried to make it work.
The only advice I can give is if she doesn't know how to communicate feelings and insecurities at this age, she needs therapy sooner rather than later. My ex never received therapy and he really needed it for his behavior.
Good luck and remember to do what's best for you.
Actually yes. It is.
This is called neglect. Learn to recognize it, and don't remain in a relationship that neglectful.
It’s only the “me not getting over it” that’s standing in the way of us just moving on. I admit that we’ve had communication issues in the past, this being one of them, so we’re definitely working on that. But then there’s me and my feelings that cause us to have misunderstandings and fights. So yeah it does feel like i’m the problem. So even though I have come to realise they are completely valid, they have to go! I just don’t know how…
One: You should never let anyone tell you what should or should not upset you. Your feelings are always valid. What you do with it is what matters.
Two: Kudos for using those heartbreaking words to turn your life and health around. Not everyone would respond as calmly and as rationally as you did. I salute you for that.
Three: Do some introspection. Why did those words hurt you as it did? What happened? What did it affect? Your ego? Your trust on her? Your confidence? Take your time. There is no right or wrong answer.
Four: Time for another serious conversation. Think of what you really want. Do you want things to get better between the two of you? Do you want her to apologize? Can you move on from what she said?
There’s really nothing to be torn about here. He’s an adult who has the agency to make his own decisions. You’ve been together for a long time. You obviously haven’t trapped him.
Why would you be more involved in family things when they treat you like shit?
You then make the same argument you made in your post which I honestly didn’t address intentionally, because I hate the argument. But since you said it again, I’ll tell you why. You don’t need to make him understand that you love him no matter what. That’s not at all in question. I’m sure he knows you love him no matter what.
His struggle is not being able to establish boundaries with his family, because he’s afraid of what might happen if he tries to do so. He doesn’t need reassurance that if he loses them, he’ll be fine because he has you. He needs to know that he won’t lose his family.
You also might logically accept that they don’t like you and see it as “it is what it is.” If he’s going to have a relationship with them, that’s completely unsustainable. You’re also here with an “it’s me or them” proposition. If that’s the case, they win. If you want any chance at this working, you need to be pushing him to firmly speak up and demand they respect you and his decision. If they won’t, if he can’t walk away from them, no argument about how much you love him is going to matter.
I already told him I’d get back to on everything.
None of the guys I’ve dated ever did shit like this & my partner would never (and he’s thankfully not even on SM either so it’s a blessing) but I do know my BIL is this type so it’s just a handful of gross ones out there and you got one of them.
…you sound so incredibly full of yourself
No that was you, you physically tried to prevent her from leaving.