He watches specific content, like he has a specific person to go to.
And I’m betting his wife feels hella insecure after finding out exactly it. Or she’s developed an insecurity to just how much he gets off to another woman. Or he watches porn more than having sex with her.
The point isn’t whether or not it’s good, it’s that she’s communicated that she isn’t comfortable w him doing so only for him to lash out and go behind her back multiple times by CHOICE and feign caring about her whilst hurting her at the same time.
It is always scary when someone jokes about something serious. Jokes are only jokes when they are funny… and what she said was not funny. Chances are she was not being serious. Of course you know her best. If she is normally an honest, considerate person, I wouldn't think you'd have anything to worry about… but if I were you, I'd be checking those condoms for holes for a while just in case, because you just never know.
Emotional cheating involves… Emotions. This was a handful of messages between opposite gendered people and she laid out that she has a bf. It's not cheating. It's not even close or related to cheating.
Also, her private information was violated. He absolutely should not have done that. You and she ought to report him to the manager/owner of the gym. He'll probably get fired for that shit.
Why can’t you propose to him?
Porn is different.
He watches specific content, like he has a specific person to go to.
And I’m betting his wife feels hella insecure after finding out exactly it. Or she’s developed an insecurity to just how much he gets off to another woman. Or he watches porn more than having sex with her.
The point isn’t whether or not it’s good, it’s that she’s communicated that she isn’t comfortable w him doing so only for him to lash out and go behind her back multiple times by CHOICE and feign caring about her whilst hurting her at the same time.
It is always scary when someone jokes about something serious. Jokes are only jokes when they are funny… and what she said was not funny. Chances are she was not being serious. Of course you know her best. If she is normally an honest, considerate person, I wouldn't think you'd have anything to worry about… but if I were you, I'd be checking those condoms for holes for a while just in case, because you just never know.
You gave yourself a handy with someone else's hand, and spent $60 on it.
Happy birthday!
Emotional cheating involves… Emotions. This was a handful of messages between opposite gendered people and she laid out that she has a bf. It's not cheating. It's not even close or related to cheating.
Also, her private information was violated. He absolutely should not have done that. You and she ought to report him to the manager/owner of the gym. He'll probably get fired for that shit.
Sounds like he's gaslighting you. I think you are in a toxic relationship my friend.