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Date: October 20, 2022
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She’s cheating my guy , drop her infected ass
You said yourself she was abusive and “HE” chose not to be with her and “HE” chose to make a life with you. That being said it’s still the mother of his children, a woman he thought at one point in his life they would be a family. He probably has a flood of emotions running through him right now that he most likely doesn’t understand either. You need to put your jealousy aside and help him through this so you both can help his children get through this no doubt life changing event for them.
This is horrible advice. It’s how people end up isolated and codependent. A partner should be icing on the cake, not the cake itself. There needs to be balance. A parent can’t fill all the roles a person needs in their life.
The OP isn’t wrong to want more time as today, there’s basically none. And yes, there are times when a partner needs to be prioritized over other things. But not all the time and in all situations.
Like if I’m in the middle of a go live on a project, I may have to work longer hours or cancel plans with my partner if things are going sideways. But that’s a couple times a year not every weekend. And if I don’t put that work in, I won’t have a job. Given that I all the primary breadwinner, that would be bad for both of us and he is understanding.
If you don't leave you will probably end up like his ex or worse. Dont think, just leave. Dont go back to him
If her fiancé is more attracted to someone else, maybe she'd be doing her a favor… sucks for both parties (OPs husband & co- workers partner).
lol you're in your late 20's and you think your friend group will think you're a pussy because you just aren't interested in a girl anymore?
Sounds like you just need a new friend group who aren't so immature.
Just tell her you're going to have to cancel your plans with her this week and then never reschedule. Then move on from there.
Have you had covid or otherwise been ill recently? My periods are also pretty regular but got delayed when I had covid.
Honestly there's a lot of fake rage bait that gets posted to this sub so a lot of people treat a significant number of posts like they're fake rage bait.
So she's been metaphorically running after you for hundreds of miles your whole relationship, from the VERY start you set up this dynamic. And now she no longer wants to do it, NOW it's convenient to say “oh I should've done better but I don't know how why won't she stay and teach me???”
You had years. Did you even TRY anything, like therapy, before going “I'm just more logial and more logical means more reasonable so she's being emotional which means invalid and unreasonable”?
I'm on the spectrum too. But as a girl, I spent my life undiagnosed and had to have therapy all my life to learn to work with people. What have YOU done to learn and improve your lacking skills?
I do actually but not close with any of them like my boys especially if she’s in a relationship
Doing some math here…you were 23 and she was 17 when you started dating???