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Date: October 7, 2022
You don’t sound stupid. You sound like you think you owe him. But you don’t. You don’t owe him your body, your time, or your energy. Work on your impulse control and just be cordial when you see him around. You deserve more and better than what he is offering. If you want a friend with benefits or even a one night stand, go for a different guy. I won’t judge you for wanting to online your life. You just have to know he just isn’t the guy you need for any of it. Good luck. And I’m sorry about what happened to you back than. I hope you were able to get the help you needed and are doing better.
Stop spying on his snap and all your problems go away
Ur insight made me reaffirm my devotion to stay with my gf. Lately, she's pushing me away because of her past traumas. And my own trauma from my past relationship made me overthink that maybe she don't love me anymore or she's seeing someone else that's why she's pushing me away. I guess my fear of losing her like that overshadowed her need for reassurance. Now I feel bad, thank you for giving me clarity . I appreciate it alot!
What’s the point if you’re not the best
Time for a new BF, my dear. There are guys who are into this gesture thing and guys who never will be and girls who want it and girls who don’t care. Find someone who speaks your language. ❤️
also don’t buy presents for people and then feel resentful about it – at that point they are not gifts.
Tailgated too naked and passed out. No biggie. Have the fight if it's gonna happen and let him know it was important to you. If he doesn't apologize then it's a problem, if he does work it out. Especially as it sounds like his first Christmas with her he just made a young dumb mistake or didn't even realize it was important. Lots of people like holidays too much, I blew off Christmas dinner today too because I needed some extra sleep. I'll go see my mom on Monday. It's only two days later.
It’s not that I’m refusing to commit to her. I have basically been committed to her since October. The only thing is that we were never «official», but I kinda don’t see what that has to do with it bc as I mentioned earlier, we’ve done everything couple regularly would.
Sexual tension doesn't disappear. If you have been intimate with someone, and are now in a new relationship, IMO it's best to separate yourself from then completely rather than trying to kid yourself that 'you can just be platonic'.
This is just victim blaming. You’re fully enabling the wrongdoers with this attitude.
So what? I don't get a phone call from every close friend I have on my bday.
That's not a normal expectation. It'd be normal for her son, and immediate family to call her and maybe get her a gift/flowers.
Your job is to go to bday dinners with her (if someone arranged one) or to a party (if someone arranged one), etc…
If my BEST friend in the world didn't call me on my birthday it wouldn't even register to me. Of course her SON should call.
The expectation is ridiculous. It's great that she's a good MIL (besides this, I guess). But, it's an unusual expectation (especially in western societies).
You went one step too far. You gloss over the other issues you have had but I think she has had enough. She should adjust her life to your absence then to adjust her boundaries to accommodate your disrespect
Just block him and move on!!
I'm going to be real honest here. She's not a winner in this dynamic. At best, her father used her as a cover for SAing other two kids. At best, he used her to abuse his victims in his stead.
At best. That is still abuse. Really sick and darkly twisted abuse. Most likely, she was a co-conspirator and likely some emotional incest, too.
Frankly, I'm curious why her father never targeted her. Why would daddy not violate his favorite daughter? That's really odd because usually incest and sexual abuse of children is explained to the child as special time and a special relationship. In fact, my friends' who've been the victim of incest were told they were the favorite, too. The sex was proof they were the favorite.
My sister is the golden child who needs all the praise and attention and when I was sexually abused by a family friend as a preteen? She demanded to be allowed to go out for special time too with the man who sexually abused me. She was supposed to get all the special attention and it wasn't right I had something she didn't have. So, how did your fiancée handle not getting this attention from dad? What did she think it was.
What I'm getting at is this story doesn't add up. Do you really believe that your fiancée wasn't raped in this dynamic? What were her parents rewarding her for?
Has she ever done any therapy? If she hasn't, that would be a very good reason to step away from her. She needs to work through her childhood and her role–passive and active–in this situation.
Her support of her father really tells us nothing. It honestly makes me even more concerned for her. It's very unlikely that she had a healthy dynamic with her father and she may feel absolutely fine taking money and gifts from him as recompense for dealing with her childhood. She's not the first wealthy kid to react to an abusive or neglectful childhood that way. However, the quid pro quo of their relationship makes me wonder if it was as normal as you think. What is weird in your sex life?
I wouldn't waste another second of time with a partner who frowned upon me for protecting my home and both your lives. Knowing your loved one, who's supposed to be your #1 support and have your back shame you for doing what's needed literally being a hero is such a deal breaker.
Complete opposite values. She rather be with someone weak and be a victim. She also refuses to confront her personal issues and projects them on you. She is not loyal. Not saying she's cheating, but now you know you cannot trust her in a life death situation to save you if need be, because of her response here. She would never do the necessary thing if an emergency happened.
I think with nudes it goes beyond just emotional. You should investigate whether there has been any other cheating including an outright affair. Nows the time to get it all out on the table, devastating if you try to recover from this and find out more later.
My moms sister had that happen to her. Got multiple sclerosis and died at age 38. Her husband left her a year before her death because he didn’t want a sick wife. It was so sad.
After reading this post I gotta say I have very little respect for you.
Your parents marriage is horrible and you know it. Your reason for wanting them to stay together in this misery is entirely selfish. Grow up, these are 2 ppl who do not want to be together. Support them to find lives that are actually fulfilling and stop being so self centred.
Just ghost him and move in.
Just ghost him and move in.
You are not paying her, you are paying for your child to have a good and decent life. I assume she is going to take most care like she did before.
sometimes men are just shady. it could be for so many reasons but you won’t really know even if you ask him. just move on
sometimes men are just shady. it could be for so many reasons but you won’t really know even if you ask him. just move on
Ouch, that sucks.
But yeah, I can see that he doesn't find the situation tenable long term, and it can be incredibly stressful to be the primary provider (ie to know that if anything happens, your partner won't be able to support the family for any length of time). You love your job, but to both stay in the job and to stay where you live, you'd have to be heavily subsidized all your life.