I read your original post just to make sure I had the whole picture. This girl was happy to have a genuine friend and no longer felt the need to be on guard with you. She was relaxed and talkative. She felt safe. And then you, creepy dude you are, hit her with “hey, you should have sex with me with no strings attached”. Of course she's telling other girls! She was strong enough to say no. Do you know how many would say yes cause “but if I say no he may rpe/kll me!” She's protecting the rest of them. That's more than just a lil uncomfortable moment in a friendship. That's “I can fly under the radar for YEARS then suddenly reveal that I've been sexualizing you and thinking about your body the whole time”. Guess what, being in a good mood, chatting, and not feeling like we have to lean away from you, ISN'T FLIRTING. It's being relaxed. It's being around a friend. This isn't her “throwing away a friendship” this is her protecting herself from someone who made it clear he wanted her body, not her friendship. If you want a friend, be a good friend. If ya want a FWB, sign up for tinder and state that's what you are looking for.
I’m glad you understand and won’t pursue that friendship.. nothing good will come from it.. better to stay no contact.. undoubtedly you don’t have him blocked or anything since he contacted you., hope all goes well
If you're confused by someone second guessing themselves then you have not enough life experience to be giving out advice.
That's very sleazy, I'm sorry
If you go on strike OP please give us an update,
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I read your original post just to make sure I had the whole picture. This girl was happy to have a genuine friend and no longer felt the need to be on guard with you. She was relaxed and talkative. She felt safe. And then you, creepy dude you are, hit her with “hey, you should have sex with me with no strings attached”. Of course she's telling other girls! She was strong enough to say no. Do you know how many would say yes cause “but if I say no he may rpe/kll me!” She's protecting the rest of them. That's more than just a lil uncomfortable moment in a friendship. That's “I can fly under the radar for YEARS then suddenly reveal that I've been sexualizing you and thinking about your body the whole time”. Guess what, being in a good mood, chatting, and not feeling like we have to lean away from you, ISN'T FLIRTING. It's being relaxed. It's being around a friend. This isn't her “throwing away a friendship” this is her protecting herself from someone who made it clear he wanted her body, not her friendship. If you want a friend, be a good friend. If ya want a FWB, sign up for tinder and state that's what you are looking for.
I’m glad you understand and won’t pursue that friendship.. nothing good will come from it.. better to stay no contact.. undoubtedly you don’t have him blocked or anything since he contacted you., hope all goes well