This. I'm similar and i have to stop and rationalize. Did I talk to them about said issue? If so did they say it was fine and that they love me? If so do i have any legitimate reason not to believe them? If it's because my brain is telling me bad things about myself then does my brain usually lie to me about these things? Yes! Ok so which one logically should i believe? Etc. If i can stop, break it down and rationalize then more often than not the feeling goes away temporarily if not permanently. Just breathe, break it down step by step and don't think in what is because that is an endless loop that is not rational. Use what info you actually have and work it out logically. Your brain is the enemy in these scenarios, not yourself or your S.O. so treat it like the problem and try to beat it at it's own game.
He couldn't stay with her. She left him for another woman and he had to keep that secret for her. he still won't admit she was likely closeted. whatever this will be his problem that he will time after time after each girl leaves his ass
Okay, but even most murderers are decent folks like 99.9% of the time. It's just that stabby .1% that's a real problem.
Ask yourself, what's your line here?
Is it this? Is it him getting fired for masturbating at work? Is it him being charged with indecent exposure?ending up on a registry? Cheating? If he stays “great in all other ways” are you up for all that?
This. I'm similar and i have to stop and rationalize. Did I talk to them about said issue? If so did they say it was fine and that they love me? If so do i have any legitimate reason not to believe them? If it's because my brain is telling me bad things about myself then does my brain usually lie to me about these things? Yes! Ok so which one logically should i believe? Etc. If i can stop, break it down and rationalize then more often than not the feeling goes away temporarily if not permanently. Just breathe, break it down step by step and don't think in what is because that is an endless loop that is not rational. Use what info you actually have and work it out logically. Your brain is the enemy in these scenarios, not yourself or your S.O. so treat it like the problem and try to beat it at it's own game.
Got one. The whole family one doesn't get used even when I do. My parent talk to me with one of my dad, mom, and I.
He couldn't stay with her. She left him for another woman and he had to keep that secret for her. he still won't admit she was likely closeted. whatever this will be his problem that he will time after time after each girl leaves his ass
Why is she stressed about money?
Your sister sucks and did exactly what she wanted, to sabotage your relationship.
Okay, but even most murderers are decent folks like 99.9% of the time. It's just that stabby .1% that's a real problem.
Ask yourself, what's your line here?
Is it this? Is it him getting fired for masturbating at work? Is it him being charged with indecent exposure?ending up on a registry? Cheating? If he stays “great in all other ways” are you up for all that?
Crockpot for a gift and she’ll get the msg