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Date: October 8, 2022
Oh.. this hurts my heart. shed this relationship, for your future. You’re 21 and have all of your 20s left – which can be some of the most adventurous and prosperous years of your life.
Don’t allow him to force you to burn bridges- a support system is going to be your best resource. If he is in his 30s, 10 years may not mean a lot when you’re 45 & 55 years old – but personally, myself and all my friends went through sooo much growth in our 20s. I am not the same person I was at 23 and 23yo me was not the same as 21yo me. What it sounds like is, your bf is attempting to isolate you so you solely rely on him. People outside of your relationship are some of your greatest supports (as should the person in the relationship with you), and from what your situation sounds like, his goal isn’t to unconditionally support you – but it sounds like you want to unconditionally love him.
There a lot of guys who firstly look out for themselves and their little friend, but there’s a fuck ton more who want to look out for you and your emotional well-being first and foremost. Your partner should be expected to have grown out of that mindset by his 30s – maybe he will in the future – but from past experiences, that’s going to need to be something he addresses on his own. Unfortunately, if rewarded and responded to, that behavior begins to be seen as a norm and as a way of getting what he wants.
If you want advice and help- get your friends back and/or make different friends, because they will be your biggest help and the most support for you. I would hope they also encourage you to leave that relationship – at the very least set and stand your boundaries.
But she’s not because she want to give her all even if that only gets her to your part-time income. If she were in your position, she would work full time and make more money than you. That’s where the resentment and incompatibility comes from. Do you spend all your extra time on yourself, your hobbies and interests? Do you use any of that time toward the housekeeping or things that will benefit you both? If not, that could also build resentment because she’s putting in more labour than you if you split the housework 50/50 and she’s working full time.
And before you say it, the fact you make the same money as her in that time does nothing to change her mind except maybe add some salt into the wound if she’s jealous that you have more free time. Doesn’t address the difference in labour.
We have had sex a couple times so I think it’s a relationship he’s just too kind if that makes sense. It’s kinda made me put my guard up