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MayaCherryKiss Public Chat Channel
Date: November 9, 2022
AmateurPub
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MayaCherryKiss Public Chat Channel
Start dating her. I pick flowers by the side of the road and give them to her. I buy loving greeting cards and write letters about how much I love her and send them to her in the mail, buy her little things that she likes. My wife and I have been married for over 40 years and I started doing these things and more when I saw her distancing herself from me at our 10 yr mark. We don’t have much disposable income but doing these little things confirm to her that I love her and that she’s always on my mind.
OP, it’s painful to read your post, and confusing. From what I gather you are putting too much into this relationship and getting not much out of it. Which might have been fine if you only ever thought of her as a needy non-reciprocating friend. But, since you do/did have feelings for her my advice is to just move on and save your time/energy/friendship for people who have better values, like you more, use you less, and live in your town so you can meet up in person frequently. It’s not your role to be someone’s free therapist and volunteer cheerleader.
No request for advice..
I cannot tell you what you have to do. I just feel that open communication is usually the best option rather than fretting about things. Esp if you’ve been prone to being anxious in the past.
You’re only a few months in, if something is going on you might as well know now.
Conversely, if he cannot deal with your mental health issues causing you to worry or get anxious sometimes, he may not be the one for you either. As long as you don’t accuse him of cheating every few weeks of course.
terrible loss
That's no reason to behave like an *sshole.
If she behaves like an *sshole, and to you, expect she'll do that anytime her tiny little world is upset a bit. Do you want her to be treating you like toilet paper for your entire life? No, … so it's over – no coming back from what she's done. And if she treats you, her “boyfriend” that horribly, just think how she treats others – so hell no, I wouldn't even want to be associated with such a person.
He is a rapist and an abuser. This is not a safe place for you or your children. He isn’t a good man, he isn’t wonderful in all other respects. This is manipulation to keep you quiet and in your place. Please find a safe place to go to.
Get a better girlfriend.
Eight, I'm bored of his shit and I only had to read about it. Life is too short to waste time on this stuff. Block and move on or you'll still be playing this stupid game in 10 years.
Maybe she thought you didn't self-quarantine long enough after Covid?
Your suggestion of a one week break seems reasonable, but nobody here can tell you what comes next, because that's up to her. Play it by ear.
If by any chance she's writing in to this sub to ask our advice, we'd all be telling her: “breaking up does not require mutual consent. If you're through with him, just block him everywhere and never see him again. He doesn't have to “allow” the breakup.”