I understand that, but what’s even more fustrating is that when people are saying just focus on it or this or that, it’s like that’s what I’ve already been doing. This degree is killing me after I’m pulling all nighters with no sleep waking up on my computer keyboard and still not being able to complete the assignment. It’s hot and it’s degrading each and every day I have to walk into the computer room knowing I have no idea what’s going on or how to code, I am trying to learn it again but the pace is very fast
you think talking about boundaries in the bedroom kills the mood? damn, that poor girl…she deserved to have her first time with someone who actually cared about her ://
I’m sorry you’re going through this, but I believe your husband probably didn’t really love you. And when you got pregnant with his child, he felt obligated to marry you so the kid won’t be born out of wedlock. Him calling you a bad mother and not supporting you through your depression says a lot about his character; he’s an asshole (sorry, not sorry). And the fact that he lost interest in you because you got pregnant for HIM and had HIS baby shows he didn’t really love you. It seems like your marriage may have been forced, I dunno. But you’re better off without him. You’re still very young and have a long life and options ahead of you.
Ok so if I went out bowling with a gorgeous girl who I suspect has a crush on me without asking my gf and my girlfriend got upset she’s completely in the wrong? I never said she couldn’t go. I feel uncomfortable. Me being insecure is grounds for my feeling to be completely invalidated?
Op, there's no coming back from that comment. And you keep saying kids aren't a requirement for you, but the fact that that was your initial reaction proves that having kids IS what you want. I think you need to break up, both for you making a hurtful comment, and also for the lack of compatibility kid wise. (You can't compromise on kids).
Love this advice. It never crossed my mind that she would try to compromise just to keep being with OP, that would lead down a road of pain and misery probably from all parties and even the kid.
Why are you still with him?
I understand that, but what’s even more fustrating is that when people are saying just focus on it or this or that, it’s like that’s what I’ve already been doing. This degree is killing me after I’m pulling all nighters with no sleep waking up on my computer keyboard and still not being able to complete the assignment. It’s hot and it’s degrading each and every day I have to walk into the computer room knowing I have no idea what’s going on or how to code, I am trying to learn it again but the pace is very fast
you think talking about boundaries in the bedroom kills the mood? damn, that poor girl…she deserved to have her first time with someone who actually cared about her ://
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I’m sorry you’re going through this, but I believe your husband probably didn’t really love you. And when you got pregnant with his child, he felt obligated to marry you so the kid won’t be born out of wedlock. Him calling you a bad mother and not supporting you through your depression says a lot about his character; he’s an asshole (sorry, not sorry). And the fact that he lost interest in you because you got pregnant for HIM and had HIS baby shows he didn’t really love you. It seems like your marriage may have been forced, I dunno. But you’re better off without him. You’re still very young and have a long life and options ahead of you.
You dated for a month? Love shouldn't even factor into it.
Cut your losses.
Thank you—I appreciate your comment.
Ok so if I went out bowling with a gorgeous girl who I suspect has a crush on me without asking my gf and my girlfriend got upset she’s completely in the wrong? I never said she couldn’t go. I feel uncomfortable. Me being insecure is grounds for my feeling to be completely invalidated?
Go. To. The. Police.
Ur school will not help u. Go to the police and try there
I get it that’s why I’m just going to accept that. I was talking about the part of him saying he just wants in my pants
Op, there's no coming back from that comment. And you keep saying kids aren't a requirement for you, but the fact that that was your initial reaction proves that having kids IS what you want. I think you need to break up, both for you making a hurtful comment, and also for the lack of compatibility kid wise. (You can't compromise on kids).
Love this advice. It never crossed my mind that she would try to compromise just to keep being with OP, that would lead down a road of pain and misery probably from all parties and even the kid.