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Date: October 25, 2022
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She has made it very clear to you that she sees you as a friend only. As a woman, I can promise you that if we don't feel an attraction or pull towards someone, it's not going to happen. You certainly wouldn't like being pressured to date someone you aren't interested in, so leave her alone.
She has made it very clear to you that she sees you as a friend only. As a woman, I can promise you that if we don't feel an attraction or pull towards someone, it's not going to happen. You certainly wouldn't like being pressured to date someone you aren't interested in, so leave her alone.
She has made it very clear to you that she sees you as a friend only. As a woman, I can promise you that if we don't feel an attraction or pull towards someone, it's not going to happen. You certainly wouldn't like being pressured to date someone you aren't interested in, so leave her alone.
You continue to defend him, so I think you don’t want the answers the patrons of this sub are giving you. You do you, and keep a leash on him next time he’s drinking, eh?
Sorry OP but I also lean towards ending things. Possible worse that then the actual cheating is the breach of trust. Do you honestly believe she didn't have sex with the guy she made out with? How do you trust her? How do you believe her when she says it hasn't happened since then – you already know she's a liar? Honestly the only time I would ever consider working through things is if the cheater themselves come clean on their own shortly after the incident – with no excuses on any kind. On that basis I can see a possible road to rebuilding trust. Ultimately whatever you decide just don't be gaslit accepting that it's somehow not as big a deal as it allegedly happened 5 years ago and she's “proven her loyalty” since. It's new to you.
Thank you. Shit is pissing me off
I see alot of comments say get a new job. Don't if you like your job. People will forget, it'll be old news. Just takes time. Hangiexty is real and hopefully you'll not do it again, but I've done some stupid shit at work parties in my time and I didn't quit (from back-flip of a stool when I'd never attempted a backflip before in my life / accept shots from the CEO and then proceed to tell him how I'd restructure the company and fo his job better) look shit happens its not the end of the world.
Very. Upsetting.
It's literally the first thing said in the first paragraph
Please update us if you do this
Throw in a timeframe – “please just listen to me for the next 15 minutes and not offer any opinions or advice”.
He doesn't want to marry you and it's obvious. Find a new man, who DOES want to marry you.
He’s 22 years old… his sex drive hasn’t even hit its peak. Ahhhhh I wouldn’t expect much out of this
right? wtf is up with this post
How are you meeting these guy friends usually?
To be highly suspicious and perfectly blunt, it sounds like your short-term boyfriend is a MASTER manipulator! He tells you to STOP caretaking him but still expects you to continue, thus relieving HIS guilt and outright mooching. Honey, this guy is USING you and your CARING nature to drain your financial and emotional resources! Let him go for your sanity!
Did he consent to you putting his trauma out there? Huge yikes on the handwave of your own actions too
Yeah, I guess that makes sense
I mean wtf does she expect. One of the few times you could tell your girl to get over it. Protect your home and family at all costs. No excuses.
youre right. i think i gotta give this a shot and see how it goes cause im really trying to quit porn and seek out being with real women rather than seeing them through a screen.
There’s pedophilia??
It's actually not abnormal. 52% of men have experienced ED, and yes that includes younger men. It can happen because of low testosterone, stress or anxiety, porn addiction, high blood sugar from diabetes, & multitudes of other reasons. Luckily, its a very treatable issue and I would suggest going to the doctor sooner than later so that he can get it all sorted out.
Not sure how it works with rings, but maybe you can call and get insurance put on the ring, and then report it missing in a few weeks of months lol. I did this one time with a car..my car got hit by a random person a parking lot (no witness) but I didn't have uninsured motor coverage. I called and added it, and later on reported the damage. It worked ?
If you have spent ten out of the last twelve months fighting about this (or any subject) and still are not sure the issue is resolved, you need to consider changing your situation. Leave him. He’s not interested in trying to get help or make a change. Jacking off at work will get him at least fired, at worst jailed one day. Doing it at home to the point he doesn’t want to be intimate with you is affecting your mental health and jeopardizing your relationship. But after this long, it’s time to put the relationship aside and take care of yourself by leaving.
Congratulate yourself for making a lucky escape. Controlling partners make life a misery.
We did couples therapy for a while, but honestly we both decided it wasn’t helping due to the therapist talking about themselves more than anything. He said he wanted to go to therapy himself, but where we live he’s on a long waiting list, and now I don’t know if he still wants to go or not, I haven’t asked.
I feel like he puts all our issues on me like it’s my fault for everything, and I’m so eager to please and keep him so I take it. Then I cry about it, and he does nothing to make me feel like it ISNT all my fault. We were so great up until we moved in together, now it’s like we’re falling apart.
Being easy isn’t a flex.
If there was no proof at all attached to the letter, just be a bit more cautious and ignore it. Doesn't hurt to be more alert, but surely you believe your fiancee more than anonymous letters?
Sure I have other options there's girls who are way better looking and you know have more prestigious careers and have more better things going for them
Well, at least you have your priorities sorted /s
Why are you even posting this? The whole “what should I doooo??” is dumb af, you KNOW what you should do and ppl here are telling you exactly what you wanted to be told but you’ll still stay with him for some reason based on your comments. In your incredibly short relationship he has dated other women and slept with other women but months have passed since finding out and you’re still with him. Are you just afraid of being alone? You can’t complain about feeling trapped when you’re the one holding the door shut.
Well, we can. It’s just that I don’t want her to one feel embarrassed of crying or expressing emotions in public. And or drive back home while processing the emotions… just a safety measure I guess….
It will be much harder if you have kids or shared assets.
OP, if you let this slide again you’re basically giving him the green light to keep cheating on you. Are you comfortable spending the rest of your life with this feeling?
There is no unringing this bell.
It really depends on what they say. If you are intentionally trying to hurry your partner as much as you can. If you cross boundaries. If you accuse them of being abusive. No.
There’s a difference in “mean” and unforgivable.
Drunk means you're not going to react the same to some pretty fucking startling news like your partner suddenly out of the blue telling you she doesn't want kids.
I know this sub is absolutely obsessed with screaming breakup and abuse whenever a guy has a reaction, but I mean seriously you can't imagine being drunk and having your partner tell you after 5 years apparently she changed her minds about a fundamental part of your plan?
If it's his fault he reacted poorly, then it's also hers for bringing up a massive bombshell while drunk. Pretty messed up to either hide something like this from a partner or to suddenly pivot.
And I obviously thanked her bought gifts presents to show my gratitude my family is very spandrels also always giving her money too so you are wrong!
So you are bitching about what again?
Wait, do you think young women are mentally deficient? Nice.