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Date: November 7, 2022
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Shoot … add me into a group text with them:
Hello Mooches! Get your own money! Bc you d4mn well know if the roles were reverse you would pay for SH1T! Their money is for them! Not you!
Having boundaries and standards does not = controlling. No one wants a relationship where there partner consistently engages in behavior they don’t like wtf.
Well, your moral compass is your own thing. If financially supporting creeps > pirating, then you do you.
Hiding, lying and emotionally cheating aren't expected or accepted within the confines of an open marriage unless discussed beforehand
Okay then what I said still stands regardless of gender sex or whatever you wanna lick on.
“But really nobody should be hitting anyone.”
Well, plenty of people have more than one mom or more than one person they call mom so it is really ok to refer to both of them as mom since they both hold that official title with you. Some will just add an initial to it “Mama T” and some will have “mom and mama” or some variation of mom like “mimi”. Also, if you have a particular heritage I've seen people use words for mom in other languages or cultures. Anyway, it is all based on your comfort level and preference. Maybe start with adding “mama” to her first name? Like Mama Anna or whatever? Just to start… you may need to try a few versions out and see what sticks for you. It always feels weird when you have to start referring to someone in a different way that you've referred to them for many years, but try a few things out and see what feels right for you both. And congratulations on your official adoption!
You are not her guardian. She needs professional help and you need to stop enabling her, this is extremely unhealthy behaviour. Be gentle, but firm.
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The jokester in me would have 100% done this.
Her: She's got evil eyes.
Me: Looks like you when you're mad at me.
Her: Gives me the evil eye
Me: Yeah, thats the one!
Now. You can start now. If your ex is going to be weird and pissy it will happen regardless of whether you wait another week, month, or 6. If he’s going to be mature about it, he will handle whatever emotions come up without making it your problem
You can do this but let her know and get her input. Literally go find a bunch of online options and ask which she likes, or sit with her and scroll thru a website
Take your kids and go. File for custody and divorce. Then once you get settled finish your medical stuff to be a doctor.
this is rage bait ain’t no way
Oh FFS – this has to be the worst suggestion yet!
He's doing BJJ, one of the most masculine martial arts….and you want him to run to the teacher, as a girl made a move on him? Are you kidding?
I’m asking this as mom—how old are you? You sound young. I promise you will be able to move past this but don’t wast your energy on hating her.
Focus on putting positive energy and growth into yourself, and think about the kind of partner you want to attract. Be the kind of person that your ideal partner would be attracted to. And I don’t mean go to the gym—work on your mental health. Do things that bring you joy. Play video games. Enjoy being single.
But don’t waste your energy on hating her. Don’t carry that in your heart and with you into your next relationship.
The psychologist is trying to push her to be single and find a man to manipulate like she did to her boyfriend, she navigate her to this path for sure….yes exactly we both wanted that but she put the blame on me
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He has a lot of really great qualities so I can’t help but to think that he will be happy with this woman because he knows how to be good. It seems he’s wanted to be with her this whole time and now they have everything they want together and that he just used me but he put on a really good show. It was the best relationship I’ve ever been in, I thought. Until I found out about the lies. The one thing about him that made it difficult was his lack of empathy.
I don't consider it cheating.
I'm friends with an ex.
My wife is friends with her ex-fiance.
Mind you, there are boundaries. We don't communicate often with our exes. If she were to ever flirt with him, it'd be over. Etc. We've never actually had this conversation, but we're both mature and know what normal boundaries are.
But to just be friendly and follow each other on SM? I couldn't care less.
If at the beginning of the relationship she had told me I couldn't be friends with my ex bc she's uncomfortable with it, I would have replied, “You and I are not going to work out. It'll start with you putting rules on this and then what? We're not compatible and that's OK”.
Um… well… do you see the issue then? Because… you literally did the same thing?
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The next time you try, it’ll be with kids and you’ll be taking a backseat to his mother and him with a child. You think it’s bad now, it’ll be worse. I’d get out kidless and find what you deserved. His behavior won’t change.
In my mindset, I didn’t think she would care but that’s cheaters brain for you
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I’ve never been able to maintain a friendship with someone once I found out they cheat on their significant other. I don’t want to be associated with people like that, because people who think it’s ok are also people who would probably do it themselves.
Second, if I approached my fiancé about being uncomfortable with one of his friendships (for a very valid reason like this one) I’m pretty sure that friendship would be done. And I’d give him the same respect if he felt threatened by one of mine. He’s going to be my husband and the father of my children…. he’s the most important person in my life, period.
I’m sorry you’re going through this because I’m sure it hurts, but your feelings are so incredibly valid.
All great advice!
And also she shouldn't be using scented soaps down there. It's kind of comparable to a self cleaning oven. You don't want to use soaps or products that can affect the ph balance.
I believe relationships can survive differences of opinion, differences of characters, differences in communication styles, but not differences in core values. This seems like a massive value misalignment.
He believes that women should be seen and not heard, and that might be great for a woman who believes the same and wants to raise little ladies that believe the same, but this is not you.
He doesn’t believe in therapy but does believe in hookups. #smh It sounds like he wants an easy (and pleasurable) fix to what he sees as the “problem.”
Are they actually friends or is she just agreeing to be civil with him during group interactions? It sounds like, from what you are saying, that she doesn't actually like the guy and just tolerates him so that she can hang out with her other friends in peace and not make waves in the friend group. Do they make a point to hang out alone or is she conversing with him privately often?
I'd probably pretend this guy doesn't exist, tbh. He sounds like a giant loser. I guess I am more concerned about the fact that there is some shady behavior going on within the friend group. Sure, this guy is a perpetrator, but her “friends” hooked up with him while he knowingly had a girlfriend and they are also choosing to keep that part quiet to their now partners because they want to continue to be the guy's friend? The guy that cheated on his gf with them? That's just bad behavior and that is the part of this that would make me uncomfortable – because if they are ok with doing all that and your wife knows about it, does it mean she thinks that behavior is ok? Food for thought. I think you should just ignore this guy; like you said, you trust your wife and your relationship is good….and from what you say, it doesn't sound like your wife even wants to be “friends” with him – it sounds like she just wants to hang out with the friend group and him being there is a thing she has to put up with in order to make that happen.
exactly this. if only all people communicate and respect other better
Lol. Tons of Instagram influencer types partner up with local tour companies to make more money. It's like booking any tour anywhere, and it should be pretty easy to find out which vendors are involved to confirm it's legit.
From the perspective of a CSA survivor, I would not be able to be around her if she spoke like that. A dedicated conversation where I can prepare and know how to be supportive, I think I could do. But casually dropped into a conversation? I'd probably have a panic attack. I would refuse to be around her at all if it happened more than once.
We all cope diffrent. When i'm starting to talk about in any serious way i have an panic attack and cry for a very long time. But when i treat casually it doesn't happen and i need to talk about because i still cry when people outside my familiy touch me. So i'm droping it very casually so people don't touch me and i'm not crying endlessly.
i would heavily suggest couples therapy, hes the only one thats gonna give you the answer
Please report him.
There is just so many things wrong with this.
Omg, right? Plus, having a mouthful of lady genitalia for an extended period of time is not nearly as physically taxing as dislocating your jaw while choking and gagging for a good BJ???
Yes you are correct…
Sorry that you are going through that OP.
She had/has an EA ( emotional affair). It is as damaging as a PA ( physical affair). The character of this EA is gross ( DOM/SUB ) You don’t have any assurance that the affair is over or there won’t be another cycle of cheating OP.
Your wife has tasted the forbidden fruit. She is a wayward now She has changed.
The old relationship is on life support now and you have changed too.
Speaking bluntly OP, You are handling it poorly and dangerously.
1) tell the truth, regardless of your decision ( reconciliation or divorce) . If you can’t tell the truth then you won’t be able to handle the pressure of reconciliation. She must own the guilt and shame of her actions and you must own and defend your position to reconcile with your wayward. Don’t bear her shame as it will eat you alive.
2) stay civil and cordial at all times. She is a wayward, you don’t need false accusations of DV. some wayward partner used the anger of their betrayed spouse to trap them and depict them as controlling, abusive persons. External observer don’t know the truth and don’t know that you are traumatized now thus her allegations will seem plausible.
3) there was no accountability or consequences to her cheating. You just transformed into a jailor/ probation officer. You immediately moved to reconciliation. It Is counterproductive. R is a gift ?, not an obligation and not her right. What did she do to deserve it? What you are doing is at best rug sweeping. It is like giving pain killer for a festering wound.
4) did you protect yourself legally and financially by consulting a lawyer and separating your finance? Filing for divorce and separating the finance gives a clear signal that all the options are on the table and the reconciliation window won’t stay open eternally.
5) if you can’t leave her than your reconciliation is already compromised OP. You must be able to leave all to have it all. Otherwise, your wayward will feel your weakness and you will be exposed to another cycle of cheating
6) Did you Go to IC, did you read infidelity materials? Don’t underestimate your trauma, therapy and reading is a must to help you navigate this ordeal.
Sorry to remind you another time about the gravity of your situation, time is of the essence and you are still in limbo OP
You are already BF and GF.
I really hope you were being hyperbolic with your comment about EVERYONE’s anger being affected. The behaviour you’re describing is abnormal. I have been playing COD live for 11 years and haven’t once lost my temper. I have a kid who doesn’t even raise his voice at the screen because he’s never seen that from his parents. The mute button is very handy as well. People of our age can’t afford to act out anger like you gf either. This is how “normal” people end up in jail. They think acting out when angry is normal. It sure as fuck isn’t! I’m scared for the workforce when the Fortnight kids come of age. Anger isn’t permission to act a fool.
She is not your friend. She is using you to feel better about herself.
I would have, and did, invite them over for me to cook. Only problem is I have two dogs and they don't want to be around my dogs. Her son is autistic so he is often times running around with tons of energy and my dogs do not take well to that (they are protective of me etc). I had him and my SO once and he started to hit my dog for no reason, at that point my dog nipped his ankle but did not bite naked. I can't blame my dog in this situation, her son just ran by him and bopped him on the face out of nowhere. I am starting to see there are a myriad of reasons why this relationship won't work.
That is my plan
So she told you she didn’t want to be in a relationship with you. You continued to pile on gifts and things when she told you that it makes her uncomfortable. Then when it turns out she’s in a relationship your salty?
You aren’t mad because he was married and she compromised her morals, your mad because your coming to the reality that however many breakups you hang out for, that doesn’t oblige her to eventually pick YOU.
Stop treating this girl badly for being honest for a long time. It’s on you that you can’t accept what she’s told you verbatim.
That's possessive, controlling and borderline creepy.
Buddy, they're real. Google true romance parties. My wife threw one a few years ago.
It was very naked for me to stomach your response, but thank you. My apologies for such a late response.
Exactly. The baby is not even here yet and he’s fucking up. Don’t have a baby with a trash man. Is he going to party like this after the baby comes? Like wtf? Surely can’t trust him to stay loyal while recovering from child birth.
If you’ve blocked him, how are you getting voicemails and emails?
I've gotta be honest… it doesn't feel like it. I feel really shell-shocked & confused. I mean, I know how all of this sounds, but, I thought everything was mostly okay. She never once hinted that she was displeased with my appearance in the slightest.
There was no ‘deal’. They never actually talked about having kids or family planned at all before this. They just spoke hypothetically and abstractly about the future.
‘Deals’ is also not how relationships work. It’s not a transaction. Even if you and your partner make a ‘deal’ about something, if you change your mind that doesn’t give your partner the right to throw your strained and traumatic relationship with your mother back in your face. That’s extremely fucked up and a huge betrayal of trust.
He’s allowed to be upset about realizing he and his gf have different ideas of what they want their future to look like. But going out of your way to purposely hurt your partner deeply in return isn’t ‘backlash’ it’s cruelty. And cruelty isn’t a trait that’ll make for a good parent
You should never tell her for two reasons. The first is that you will hurt her feelings and you could contribute to insecurity about her body. The second for your sake is that she'll think you're an immature asshole (which I am sorry to say but you are) You need to grow up. You have not had sex with many people so you might not know this but vulvas and labias come in all shapes and sizes. If you want to have more sex in the future, get the fuck over it. You get to have sex with a woman you like who you find attractive. If you get turned off by the labia you are so lost my friend. Do you watch a lot of porn? The only places I really see labias completely inside is pornstars. They have plastic surgery to make them look like that! How would you feel if she told you she wasn't attracted to you because your dick wasn't huge like Danny Ds? You'd think she was both an asshole and insane for expecting someone's body to look like that irl.
Try keeping your mouth closed. It works perfectly.