i mean, if he's sexually inexperienced, then that area could get better as he gets more experience with you. You both are still young, so there's a chance he hasn't had much sex yet. I personally waited until I was 20 for actual sex (oral etc was already happening though). I just wonder if he's not good yet because he hasn't had many encounters.
but I'd say if you love everything else about him, give him a little more leash and time to see if he can't turn things around.
Fuck that bitch and break up. Bro hid that she cheated for 6 years and waited til NOW to tell you. Imagine the mountains of other shit she's 100% hiding from you bruh.
I’m not saying it’s justifiable, I’m saying that lashing out at the 21 y/o your husband slept with is severely missing the point of who wronged the wife specifically. It wasn’t acceptable for the girl to sleep with her husband, but at the end of the day he’s the one who broke the vows
Yeah I was going to say this exactly. The people I’m always suspicious of are the ones who are like, overly charming with everyone and will basically do whatever it takes to be perceived in the way they want to be perceived. That to me is a much bigger red flag than someone who sometimes doesn’t fit in with others.
Part of learning how to navigate adult relationships is knowing you can't be with someone just because you love them. Love doesn't stop someone from abusing your trust.
This goes with friends and family, too.
They need to be a positive influence in your life. They need to add value to your life and uplift you in at least a similar way you uplift them, or show appropriate appreciation for your devotion.
Everything you two have is founded by a resolved liar. He proved it by with-holding the choice to stay or leave from you until his conscience couldn't carry it anymore.
Even if there are a million lovable things about him, he has shown you that your trust, your loyalty, and your relationship are disposable to him.
If it wasn't, he'd be mortified at the idea of risking losing you, the same way you are mortified at the prospect of having to give him up.
I'm not a cop. I worded that wrong, I meant that since he is a cop, the department will rally around him. But it is a well known fact that one of the greatest risks to being the victim of domestic violence, is to be married to a cop. And that anyone who makes a cop's life more difficult, say through exposing affairs or wrong doing, will wind up at best harassed by police. Hell even police aren't safe; it isn't uncommon for an officer who wants to reveal another's wrong doing winds up “missing”
It doesn’t smell right does it? This sounds like remorse (and bullshit) rathe than SA.
i mean, if he's sexually inexperienced, then that area could get better as he gets more experience with you. You both are still young, so there's a chance he hasn't had much sex yet. I personally waited until I was 20 for actual sex (oral etc was already happening though). I just wonder if he's not good yet because he hasn't had many encounters.
but I'd say if you love everything else about him, give him a little more leash and time to see if he can't turn things around.
Fuck that bitch and break up. Bro hid that she cheated for 6 years and waited til NOW to tell you. Imagine the mountains of other shit she's 100% hiding from you bruh.
I’m not saying it’s justifiable, I’m saying that lashing out at the 21 y/o your husband slept with is severely missing the point of who wronged the wife specifically. It wasn’t acceptable for the girl to sleep with her husband, but at the end of the day he’s the one who broke the vows
Yeah I was going to say this exactly. The people I’m always suspicious of are the ones who are like, overly charming with everyone and will basically do whatever it takes to be perceived in the way they want to be perceived. That to me is a much bigger red flag than someone who sometimes doesn’t fit in with others.
Part of learning how to navigate adult relationships is knowing you can't be with someone just because you love them. Love doesn't stop someone from abusing your trust.
This goes with friends and family, too.
They need to be a positive influence in your life. They need to add value to your life and uplift you in at least a similar way you uplift them, or show appropriate appreciation for your devotion.
Everything you two have is founded by a resolved liar. He proved it by with-holding the choice to stay or leave from you until his conscience couldn't carry it anymore.
Even if there are a million lovable things about him, he has shown you that your trust, your loyalty, and your relationship are disposable to him.
If it wasn't, he'd be mortified at the idea of risking losing you, the same way you are mortified at the prospect of having to give him up.
I'm not a cop. I worded that wrong, I meant that since he is a cop, the department will rally around him. But it is a well known fact that one of the greatest risks to being the victim of domestic violence, is to be married to a cop. And that anyone who makes a cop's life more difficult, say through exposing affairs or wrong doing, will wind up at best harassed by police. Hell even police aren't safe; it isn't uncommon for an officer who wants to reveal another's wrong doing winds up “missing”