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Date: October 26, 2022
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It all comes down to your boundaries and agreements. I get not wanting to come across as controlling but being responsible and not putting yourself in situations where cheating can easily happen is something your wife should have considered.
Since the place was clothing optional she should at the very least worn panties or more, she is not single after all and nudity and alcohol don't mix well. If it was a hot beach during daytime I would be more understanding with the nudity. If the guy didn't have anything on then they were not really just grinding.
To your wife's merit she did tell you right after it happened even though the severity is still in question.
You need to have a serious discussion about boundaries and how she acts when she is hanging out with her single friends. You having a boundary of not wanting your wife being drunk and hard around other guys/people is more than fair.
How’s your 21 YR old Girlfriend feel about this post?
He might change but probably not in a timeframe that will make your relationship work. Also its a not trusting you thing. Putting his emotions on you like this is unhealthy and I had an ex do this to me (not jealously just saying he was a bad person when I broke up with him to manipulate me).
You shouldn’t marry either of them. You aren’t even sure you love them.
as someone who dated someone with BPD for years: leave. seriously. leave.
It takes two to tango. It’s not just you who went too far. Give it a bit for both of you to cool down then have a conversation about it.
Well if she discussed to him before that she was sexually assaulted and that’s a restriction he deserved it.
They should do both. At the least.
Have to back this up, being smart and successful can definitely be a double edged sword. Even if he isn't trying to one up anybody, it can come off like that.
My childhood has been a bit different from others, we've travelled a lot and I'm 23 now, lived in 4 different countries, experienced things ik not many have, and just writing that sentence makes it sound like I'm bragging. And I'm not. It's just been my life and I avoid talking about it because people sometimes react like I'm tryna be better. Sometimes it's hot to talk about certain stuff without sounding like your bragging or trying to better than someone else.
Being good at something, especially many things, can end up sounding like you're trying to one-up someone
I honestly don’t disagree with what you said to her. She might not be as bad as her mother and so it might have come across harsh but I think she has led you and you are completely valid in feeling manipulated. If you want to apologize for the harshness of your comment so be it but the feelings behind it are valid. She led you on for years about wanting kids with you and now she doesn’t want them. I’m just glad she said it before you got married. This gives you the chance to break up if your life plans don’t align.
You dealt with him at his worst and now at his best he thinks he deserves better than you. Let him try that.
YOU deserve better. You are beautiful and he sees you as someone who can't do better because you haven't left even though he's a miserable fuck.
Leave. It will be painful but I promise one day you'll wake up and it won't hurt like it used to and then another day you'll wake up next to a man you wished you'd met sooner in your life and not want tow waste another minute on the selfish piece of shit lucky enough to call himself your husband.
Well, you left all of that stuff out in your initial post so that would’ve been a lot more information to make a decision about. In that case, if you were browbeaten into it and made to do things, it is molestation. However, I doubt the courts would see it that way only because your age was so close. But it seems like you’d already made the decision about what you thought about it then came on Reddit ask for advice when you already knew what you were going to do so that’s a little weird to. But I would amend your post an ad all the information that you told me because you didn’t have that in there I just re-look at it.
i totally get it, im a submissive person too so i like it when people take control. this is why two subs don’t end up together