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Date: November 29, 2022
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To me this is the worst part:
He then brought up an old relationship of mine where I was 16 and my bf was 24. He said “what about that?” And I said “that was literally grooming and it was not ok. I've told you this. It was the worst time of my life.”
So, you opened up to him in the past about how horrible being groomed was, and he throws it in your face as an argument IN FAVOUR of sex with minors??
Thats just super twisted. Does he not know you or care about you at all?
He doesn’t want me to do OF either.
I think your GF understands what the guy does is not normal but she doesn’t want to admit the MT tricked her into spending time with him. So it’s easier to say she’s doing it for you.
I’d show her this post to show she’s crossing a line, also so she can dodge the bullet of dating a homophobe.
Why did you marry someone you don’t want to have sex with?
Condoms or anal.
It sounds like you have concerns about your boyfriend and his mother's behavior and how it may affect your relationship. It's completely understandable to feel frustrated and upset about the way you were treated in this situation. It's also important to consider whether or not you feel like you can trust and communicate openly with your boyfriend. If you feel like he is not being honest or is not supportive of you, it may be a red flag in the relationship.
As for his mother, it's not uncommon for parents to have a tendency to defend their children, but it's important for a partner to be able to take responsibility for their actions and behaviors. If you feel like his mother is not able to do this, it may be a concern for the future of your relationship.
It may be helpful to have a conversation with your boyfriend about your concerns and how you feel about the situation. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner and to make sure that your needs and feelings are being respected in the relationship. If you feel like you are not able to do this or if the behavior continues to be a problem, it may be worth considering whether or not the relationship is healthy for you.
Listen to your intuition. Your spidey senses are tingling, something is probably going on. I don't think it really matters who it is, you know something is wrong. You're actually in a better position than most in your situation; you're physically already away from him. End it. He will beg and scream and cry, but stay strong and walk the fuck away!! He will do this to you and it will escalate for the rest of your life otherwise.
The second one…at least the first part “it's rarer for you to find a man you're attracted to” Think it's too early to determine whether or not you can be AS attracted to men as you are women, think that's something you'd need to explore more first with a man you're attracted to to determine.
Sincerely, a bi-sexual female who strongly prefers men and identifies as straight for most purposes. (But I personally like the term “heteroflexible” for myself better since it emphasizes I'm primarily but not exclusively heterosexual)
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He might just have an android not an iphone. Mine can last two days if I don't use it constantly.
Genuine and meant to be a kind question, why did you marry him? Was this happening while you dated or has his behaviour charged? If he cares about you he should want to work this out. If he doesn't then he doesn't care about you and you need to decide to stay or go. Have an honest conversation about it. See what he says. And explain that it can't change for one week, it needs to be a permanent change.
We both agree about your low comprehension.
It’s bizarre simple curiosity is too complicated for you but you will need to learn the naked way.
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What context. I don’t see any additional information to help give advice.
You need therapy. You can't help your trauma, but you are responsible for your reactions, and throwing a meltdown and smashing stuff up is not an acceptable response.
He sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. That behavior is a red flag. As an actress, you’re going to eventually start traveling, long full days on sets, obviously handsome costars. It just doesn’t sound like he’s going to be able to handle/support you through that and it’s going to be harder to break up with him if you bring him on this career journey with you.
Enjoy your youth, CHASE THAT DREAM CAREER, and eventually you’ll meet a person that exceeds your expectations and you guys can enjoy your $$ rather than someone living off your naked work.
He’s literally poisoning you with it. I’m sure the container specifically says not to ingest. Wtf is wrong with him? You need to get away from him.
Cut him! Also were y’all waiting a year to become official because of him or you? If it was his choice you know why now…
She does actually have a job she can move around/travel with as well so she wouldn’t be totally screwed. I guess it’s just where to physically do it.
Like maybe I book her a night in a hotel so she at least has a safe place? Despite everything I obviously still care and want her to be safe
Guess what friend she wanted to stay with before you had your talk. She is cheating on you and lying to your face. Next thing she will try to tell you that it's your fault she's cheating. Save all the evidence. Get a lawyer. Divorce her and make sure she doesn't get a dime of your money. Let her live the life she enjoys. Do not take her back under any circumstances! She will try to trap you with a kid, but she will always be a cheater.
Whether its a reference to that or not (which you couldnt possibly know one way or the other) and whatever other things youve pointed out it is absolutely none of your business. Sounds like a nosy busybody wanting to gossip. Leave them alone.
As you get to know someone, make a list of the things they like, places that they like to go, what they like to watch. Do they like flowers, which kind. Use this list for special occasions, anniversaries, birthdays, to celebrate a promotion or career milestone or to brighten someone’s day or if they are having a difficult time and you want to lift their spirits. Sometimes a hand written note to someone that you are thinking about them and care is so much more important than a bouquet of roses. This behavior should be reciprocated by your partners. While it is nice to get someone flowers when they come back from a trip, it is not necessary. How about a nice meal of take away and spending time together., show each other that you missed them.
Partners need and should receive honesty, caring, tenderness, support and communication with one another to be successful.
Your issue at the airport was miscommunication, that is it. Don’t assume that she is disappointed, if she is she should communicate that clearly to you and you can discuss it. Learn from it. Sometimes people do not clearly communicate what they want you to do. It is very difficult to read someone’s else mind
We continue to learn and grow in a relationship and in doing that, you learn from your successes and from your failures. Failures you don’t repeat, but use to grow and change. Successes stay with you and you build off of them.
Seeing a doctor is a good idea.
Also if he watches porn he should cut back or stop to see if that helps.
Sounds like he is colder then the ice cream you were trying to buy and has anger issues… run far fast and away
I relate to all of this. I’m youngest and 59F; I was the scapegoat of the family for no reason other than I was an oopsie baby, mom had PPD, never parented me, and so as a 2 yo I would get into my older brothers model airplane stuff if he left it on a table for days on end. They all loved telling me I was switched at the hospital, or adopted just to make me cry.
And as an adult, I was always still “young and dumb” in their eyes. I realized they were making plans without consulting me, exactly like you describe…. As if they all just couldn’t be bothered to loop me in. In fact, that’s what I’m here in the comments to say OP. Demand to see Moms phone, go thru her texts and I’ll bet you that every single one of these dinners was discussed for at least 12 hrs before they bothered to mention it to you. No way do they plan last minute dinners for 13 people that start 2 hrs later!
I suggest you start new traditions with Mom and Dad. Doesn’t have to be on the official holiday, you could meet a week before or after Christmas, and the Saturday after Thanksgiving. It could be Sushi thanksgiving at a restaurant. Whatever would be enjoyable. Also, I’m betting your sisters are going to ask you for money someday and you have to write again and remind everyone about this story.
I understand where you are coming from, but that was uncalled for and rude.
She needs to dump you
I care for him as a friend don't get me wrong but nothing more than that cause I know I am straight.
Truthfully, the best thing for it right now is to give her some space. You were uncharacteristically cruel and hit her where it likely hurts the most when she was only trying to be honest. If I were in her shoes, I'd be rethinking things because of how you responded, not about the kids thing. She needs to come back from your response first; then worry about if kids are a dealbreaker for you or not.
FWIW, I am in a relationship where he wants to be with me more than the idea of having children. But there was a time when he tried to discuss some conflicting emotions and instead of a discussion, I told him to leave (we weren't living together at that time). We worked things out – it's been nearly 2.5 years since then, and just over 3 total together – but I regret hardcore not talking to him when he was trying to open up. I don't think we would have temporarily broken up if we'd talked instead.
Nothing wrong with him wanting to abstain really. But yall need to sit down and talk about all aspects of life and how his religion will impact those things. Married life, sex after marriage, raising kids, etc. How he'll feel about you not attending church with him.
Should you break up? It's entirely what you're comfortable with. If you love him are you willing to wait a couple years potentially for marriage? Is it the religious part or just the sex part that hangs you up the most?
& I bet you this isn’t the first negative reaction he’s given to her being hesitant or against kids. Maybe in subtle ways he’s manipulated her into not speaking up about not wanting kids.
I wish there was a substance that just gave you empathy I lack it a lot of the time. I hope I find the help I need as well i hope therapy can help me see others perspectives a little clearer. Maybe I go on a spiritual journey when I'm a little clearer minded. Thank you it's now or never.
I think my reasoning comes from the fact that my partner would in this hypothetical situation care enough about fucking other people to ask for permission to do so. Cheaters cheat, that’s not something you can control.
My feelings are dependent on the fact that my partner really wants to fuck other people. I appreciate that they value the relationship enough to ask, and even more that they are willing to forego said fucking of others based on my answer.
But I am not polyamorous. I don’t have room in my heart or bed for more than one person at a time. The fact that they do, in this hypothetical, represents a fundamental and intrinsic incompatibility. Ergo, I am out.
Oh absolutely, I have zero intention of dating her ever. She told me her feelings for me have gone away like that. I've also talked to my buddy about it multiple times and he always says it's cool and to not worry. But I guess he is still worried about it and sort of lords her past crush over her.