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lick finger [Multi Goal]
Date: November 18, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
lick finger [Multi Goal]
Yeah no one makes it to 45 and thinks, “hm, my nephew needs some porn” without something being mentally wrong.
Try not to spiral about what else could have happened. Make sure your son knows he’s safe and that if he needs to talk about anything, you’re there to support him. Save the conversation logs from Discord on to your computer and email it to yourself so you have that ready to go for the police. Don’t contact your brother as tempting as it is. You know he sent it. You know it wasn’t a mistake (cos he would have said, “holy shit sorry nephew that wasn’t for you! Don’t open it!” And likely would have called you – that’s what normal looks like). Let the police do the contacting.
His bad past is not a free pass to abuse others – so set aside the nonsense from your mother.
The best most important thing you can do for your children is to remove them from this situation. You absolutely have to do whatever it takes to get out. Call child protective services, go to a domestic violence shelter. Whatever it takes. You cannot stay there – they are in constant physical danger (and I suspect you are too).
She does say that quite often that the way I bring things up makes her defensive because she things it rude. I am very straight forward. I have tried to sugar coat and really revise before saying anything to her. But I find myself in the same position all the time.
He had you wait longer than you should have to use protection? What does that even mean?
No, not at all. in fact, the mother doesn't want anything to change at all. So really, aside from the knowledge that there is a strong possibility I have a kid that lives 4500kms away and Im not allowed to have anything to do with her, it doesn't really affect our relationship in any quantifiable way, save the emotional aspect of it, which were both experiencing. What bothers me is that Im still treating her with respect and love, and in return I'm made to feel like she's condemning me for something that happened 10 years before her and I had even met and I had no idea of any of this.
You are being ridiculous
You've ages out of his preferred age range probably
This is true! I appreciate this perspective! Thank you.
Updateme!
Yeah… I missed the part where he'd rather masturbate.
You really have three options…
“If this continues then we won't”. Then he admits it and probably porn is a problem.
Or you say “it's a problem”. Nothing changes and you accept being left wet and bothered.
Or you say “fix it or I'm gone”… Nothing changes and you move on.
At a high level those are your three options. You've already said it's a problem and now you're just stewing in frustration and anger.
Imagine yourself in a few years of being frustrated. Day after day of him saying “you're not worth the time. I'd rather watch porn a jack off than waste time on you.”
You love him? He's obviously not returning the favor.
How are you you going to thrive in that environment?
Imagine yourself doing this for years.
Me? I see an increasingly resentment and anger because someone who loves you wouldn't shit on you like that.
Now or years from now… This “relationship” isn't going to be end on a good note.
I think that she was lying (not necessarily cheating) to you 3 months ago and it’s not a good sign that led to breaking up. I wouldn’t downplay those facts because you still love her and haven’t found someone else in just 3 months.
Yeah, i mean this shit doesn't sound healthy
who is very talented at a lot of things
Except being a good boyfriend
and could be great if he chose to be
But he doesn't.
Why are you making so many excuses for this guy?
Past behaviors predict future behaviors
kept buying her drinks after she was way past reasonable thinking
Yeah, but she put herself in that situation. She chose to go to a place where 99% of guys want to flirt and fuck, she chose to allow flirty contact with that man to start and continue, and she allowed him to buy her drinks.
This is 100% her fault, not his 'predatory' behaviour. The fact they call it that is avoiding responsibility. All cheating starts with allowing boundaries to be breached. She was fully in control and allowed it to go this way.
On the sisters end, it makes me think she noticed some red flags about him, tried to talk to her younger sister about it, only to be shot down all the time with excuses for him, or coming from him. She probably felt this was the only way to wake OP up and get her head out of the sand.
On the sisters end, it makes me think she noticed some red flags about him, tried to talk to her younger sister about it, only to be shot down all the time with excuses for him, or coming from him. She probably felt this was the only way to wake OP up and get her head out of the sand.
Right.
Every bill and the apartment are in my name and the lease is currently month to month ?
You do know that clubs are for finding hookups, right? Would you be okay with your husband going to clubs and have sex with other people?
You’re the one reducing the world into a binary, but everyone else is naive and immature. Ha, wow.