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MaryMontana Public Chat Channel
Date: October 8, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
MaryMontana Public Chat Channel
Honestly kind of a red flag that your bf invited you to the party with the intention of leaving you alone. It’s not like you are forced to do anything. If you’re not comfortable with it, then just don’t go ?♂️
It’s her nose. You can’t do anything. She can’t change it back. What the heck do you think you can do? She’ll have this nose forever so anything you say WILL make it worse. You do nothing.
It's a fake nail in his bed. Stop kidding yourself.
Dump his ass.
Nothing you've mentioned here is an unreasonable expectation from her. You shouldn't have a girlfriend if you don't want to prioritise spending some time with her. Let her go, so she can find someone who does.
At its base,the reason you are having this problem is because when you are triggered you are disconnecting from your rational self and living in lizard-brain fight or flight mode. The way through is to find way to stay connected to that conscious,rational, human part of you when something (however reasonable or irrational). This takes work, with capital W. This may feel awkward at first, depending how comfortable you are sitting with your own thoughts (this makes A LOT of people uncomfortable). You need to start mindfulness exercises, short meditation, or whatever kind of meditation you can do is a place to start. Long runs work for some people (they call it 'Runner's High'. This isn't to “burn off” excess energy, its to get a better understanding of who you are, and how you thoughts work. Get this, and you can get away from your defensive reactions.
By accident and it becoming learned behaviour encouraged by mom are different things though.
Why do you think do little of yourself?