i then texted that i could see she was active on instagram and didn’t understand why she wasn’t responding and tried to call her twice. she didn’t pick up either time and then texted an hour later that she’d been “getting ready to call” but saw the text about me seeing she was active and the two calls and said it was “creepy”???
This would've made me really uncomfortable too. Just because I check social media doesn't mean I'm here for conversations. You were going too far trying to get a response.
“I seeee yoooou” is…not the way to go about that.
It sounds like she's been checked out of this friendship for quite a while now. After a certain point, you can't keep chasing someone who isn't replying.
It's crappy that she's just dropping hints instead of coming out and saying it, especially with how much history you two have. But for whatever reason, she's done here.
I don't think it was specifically because of the stuff in the screenshots.
ok, i would get a little annoyed when she wouldn’t respond consistently when i texted her but i have a bit of a temper.
I think you took your temper out on her one too many times. She's done here.
There never was another person that was supposed to hang out. It was just the 2 of them all along. She just told you that so you wouldn’t have any issues w it being 3 people there and knew you wouldn’t back out if there was a last minute change.
There’s more going on w those 2. Staying the night at a male coworkers home? Nope, red flag. Now wants an answer immediately to hang out again just the 2 of them & wont talk about it tonight in person. Nope, red flag.
She’s definitely cheating. People in committed relationships do not put their SO in this position. Even though she says she won’t do something you’re not comfortable with I guarantee if you say no she’ll go any and call you insecure & controlling that they’re just friends that want to spend time together. That time should be spent w you or you should go hang out with them. If she then says you can’t for whatever reason she’s definitely cheating.
Once something like this happens the trust is gone. Always go w your gut. Always.
Why are u together with him? He uses your naivety for who*ing around with your permission and blames the look of your Vag for his legalized cheating? Girl, what do u get out of this relationship?!
I have tried to not talk to her anymore, she does drunk calls once in a while. She has told me that it has been very hot for her to break things off even after she was the one initiating it. She had dated a few guys and been in a relationship with one. She says that even after that she wanted to be with me now and at this point I'm confused with emotions. I don't know what to do anymore, even if i think about leaving her i always feel like if i could have done something else or better i don't know what to say to her anymore and it's taking a heavy toll on my mental health.
i then texted that i could see she was active on instagram and didn’t understand why she wasn’t responding and tried to call her twice. she didn’t pick up either time and then texted an hour later that she’d been “getting ready to call” but saw the text about me seeing she was active and the two calls and said it was “creepy”???
This would've made me really uncomfortable too. Just because I check social media doesn't mean I'm here for conversations. You were going too far trying to get a response.
“I seeee yoooou” is…not the way to go about that.
It sounds like she's been checked out of this friendship for quite a while now. After a certain point, you can't keep chasing someone who isn't replying.
It's crappy that she's just dropping hints instead of coming out and saying it, especially with how much history you two have. But for whatever reason, she's done here.
I don't think it was specifically because of the stuff in the screenshots.
ok, i would get a little annoyed when she wouldn’t respond consistently when i texted her but i have a bit of a temper.
I think you took your temper out on her one too many times. She's done here.
Im sorry dude, I wish we were wrong but I’m just not sure how maps can get it that wrong to that specific address, I’m calling BS here.
There never was another person that was supposed to hang out. It was just the 2 of them all along. She just told you that so you wouldn’t have any issues w it being 3 people there and knew you wouldn’t back out if there was a last minute change.
There’s more going on w those 2. Staying the night at a male coworkers home? Nope, red flag. Now wants an answer immediately to hang out again just the 2 of them & wont talk about it tonight in person. Nope, red flag.
She’s definitely cheating. People in committed relationships do not put their SO in this position. Even though she says she won’t do something you’re not comfortable with I guarantee if you say no she’ll go any and call you insecure & controlling that they’re just friends that want to spend time together. That time should be spent w you or you should go hang out with them. If she then says you can’t for whatever reason she’s definitely cheating.
Once something like this happens the trust is gone. Always go w your gut. Always.
Why are u together with him? He uses your naivety for who*ing around with your permission and blames the look of your Vag for his legalized cheating? Girl, what do u get out of this relationship?!
I feel it's pretty inappropriate, as the guard knows we live together and should have just told the man that she lives with her bf
That's idiotic. That's not his job.
I have tried to not talk to her anymore, she does drunk calls once in a while. She has told me that it has been very hot for her to break things off even after she was the one initiating it. She had dated a few guys and been in a relationship with one. She says that even after that she wanted to be with me now and at this point I'm confused with emotions. I don't know what to do anymore, even if i think about leaving her i always feel like if i could have done something else or better i don't know what to say to her anymore and it's taking a heavy toll on my mental health.