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Only date people who can accept your kids, or keep them separate forever.
It doesn’t sound like the prenup is the problem so much as the timing. Dude is trying to study for a major exam and Op is trying to plan their financial future if they ever get married. That’s a serious conversation, not an aside in a study break.
c'mon man thats too easy
I'm ready to contact with my father too for supporting a (child!) sexual abuser.
Lmao why am I getting downvoted?? Did I say SMTH I shouldn't have??
I dunno man. I feel like you're making pretty logical statements about what's going on but people are giving you bad advice and demonizing you.
I think you're handling this really well, and I agree with the sentiment that you want a partner that can either weather this with you or communicate about their needs, e.g. space and time to develop their feelings.
This is something you could have hidden from her entirely, but you didn't. I commend you for being open and communicating with your partner. Maybe your partner will learn how to communicate with you, or maybe you'll find a partner who is willing to keep an open dialogue even when things get heavy.
Best of luck.
Girl, take off your rose-colored glasses.
Do you really need advice or just someone to tell you it's ok what you're doing?
It looks like you're denying any advice people give you.
What outcome do you look for from this post?
It's only been 6 months and you're completely incompatible. What do you want us to say?
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I just think your family is a bit more inhibited than your wife’s is. Nothing wrong with that. As many said above it’s practical and in some families normal.
Just have a pleasant conversation with your wife “hey next time let me know okay?”
Don’t think this is a hill for anyone to die on.
thankyou ill try that
Yes
Does he consume a lot of porn? Because that isn't normal behaviour ? it sounds a LOT like a porn addiction.
So touching is his love language? ?
Absolutely not, to be honest with just all that's happened I wrote this in the most horrible way I could've lol just spewing everything out from the years of BS I had gone through. I'm not really too sure if I have any questions that need answering, just more of a spew on everything. In a very unbalanced story. LOL
Please do not let her do this. You are opening your son up for being teased and bullied. Your wife’s feelings do not matter in this!!
She needs to step up, not you bro. If she's unwilling to act like a wife & bitch about the work that puts food on table then that's on her. If anyone should be pissed off it should be you; sounds harsh, but you can either check her ego or continue being henpecked. Either way, she doesn't “feel like a wife” because she's living like a parasite.
He wants to be with other women but he also doesn’t want you to be with other men. The marriage was already in trouble. Couple counseling. Yesterday.
Not where I’m from, not everyone is based out of the US.
I’m confused, you gave her the silent treatment for three days because you didn’t believe she had a work meeting but she can’t go out with friends and try to get feedback from them on what she should do without you setting a time limit on her to answer you? After a day AND she already told you she was busy?
She left for a reason. Let it go, and work on yourself.
I would have loved the photos but felt weird if it were put out so casually on display. I would feel weird if my family came over and saw my partner in sexy underwear.
Good. Proud of you. Stand up for yourself and what you deserve.
Accountability and respect are required in a relationship. If she can't demonstrate those tmw, then you know what to do next.
And I promise you dude. Coming from 30 yr old whose been in toxic relationships as a kid. You never know how good you could have it, until you go out there and experience it.
You will find someone who loves and respects everything about you.
And when you find a genuine love… you'll look back and realize that your ex was never a princess to begin with… and you'll look at your wife and see her as your queen.
Hey, thanks for this. I often get small spots of red blood so it must be hemorrhoids. I'm going to get it checked out on Saturday.
I guess I do. It's just very hot to execute given that everything else is literally perfect and I didn't feel that way before. Could just be a fear of loneliness that's making me think this way but yeah.. that's another story
That's a dumb take.
Why are you together when you don't respect eachother in even the most basic ways? She should have listened when you said no, and it should not be a regular occurrence that you tell her to stfu. At some point it's time to call it quits dude, this is not healthy.
In all seriousness how can he not afford to have his own cellphone. It makes no sense to me. I gave my daughter who is 7 her own iPad to reach out to me when she needs anything. I work two jobs and I think this man needs to work two to three jobs. If you don’t have money the easiest solution is to work more hours or jobs.
Stick with your job. She shouldn’t pressure you otherwise if this is something you tell enjoy. And you need to be satisfied in the work life as well as in your relationship. If it’s meant to be, it will be.
Tell him to put on his big boy pants and grow up. He is an idiot. And the relationship is dead as a Dodo.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Mourn and move on.
How you word it so they don’t get extremely hurt is the problem.
They're going to be hurt no matter what as it seems they think OP will be ok with this and still want to marry them. They're delusional and I doubt OP can word this without causing hurt. Please don't put that owness on him. It's not up to OP to do anything other than be honest.
I had the impression that OP knows what the investigation is about — if not, that'd be another huge red flag — but thank you for sharing that; I didn't realize anything about ongoing cases was online.
There was going to be an office outing, and she offered to pick me up so I could have a drink with my colleagues.
How did she even know where your house was? Why would it have been a problem for you to drive yourself?
It's clearly (as in you're expressing this very clearly) something you didn't sign up for. They might have been living with this inside them, but it's a new thing to you, or at least has been happening faster than you can adjust.
I don't think it's a given that you are still a match for each other. You'll have to listen to your own instincts on this one…. No one will be able to tell you what makes sense to your own heart here. As in NO one, I don't care how similar their stories might seem.
If it helps, no, I don't believe you're behaving irrationally. Love all by itself is confusing enough. Cut yourself slack for dealing with something of this complexity at your own pace.
Girls do love drama no doubt about it , from the gossip in the office to the TV shows they watch
That's why push / pull is a common pickup technique , thats why a bit of dominance in the bedroom is so popular and that's why a lot of woman struggle to get over boyfriends who were a little bit nasty
They are emotional at their core it's not a secret , that's why they make great mother's and great nurses and great teachers.
A lot of woman don't like life being super smooth , it's gets boring and they don't like a guy they can just walk all over.
Whole childhood?! So he lived with his grandparents till he was 18 and moved to university? I can understand he feels left out! He never lived with you ever
Lol, nice fantasy you got going there.
She's saying how I should wait for her to get her life together so she could “fix what she ruined”
No can do ma'am. I don't wait around for no body.
I guess you’re right, thanks.
What was the joke?
They’re both being childish tbh but it’s still not abuse
Thank you sooo much!!!??☀️
This is how financial abuse starts. I can't count how many times I've had to fix an oopsie like that, even if it was a lost card or a fraudulent charge. My husband has never once, not in the 16yrs we've been together, acted like that. If I were you, I'd be taking a serious step back and review your relationship.
Reddit Karma, duh!
You may be changing as a person, which happens all the time, and you’re wanting more “spark” or romance. What he did might have been fine at a time but maybe it isn’t now.
Talk to him about it, see what he says, if he can deliver more romance/ stop certain jokes. Give him good examples of what you would like and some time to try it out. If it’s a dead end then it is possible that you’ve outgrown each other.
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Ha e you thought about contacting the other woman's husband with what you know? You could see if they bought some of the stuff your husband was looking at. Perhaps the 2 if them looked for things and she “suggested” them to her husband.
It's worth s shot.
My thoughts too!!! If his timeline is correct, the pregnancy would be 12-14 weeks. Which makes the baby the size of a peach / plum….she’s definitely need a d&c and ultrasound. By this time she’s probably also know the gender
Unfortunately the answer is to leave. If you've said your piece and he is unable or unwilling to make meaningful change, then you're wasting your time on him. What possible excuse could he have in the first place? Allergic to water and soap? This is exactly the kind of situation where ultimatums are justified.