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I think the most critical things to talk about are:
Finances: It is important to discuss how you will handle shared expenses, such as rent, utilities, groceries, and other household bills. Will you each pay a certain amount, or will you split everything evenly? Will you have a joint bank account or separate accounts?
Household chores: It is also important to discuss how you will handle household chores and responsibilities, such as cleaning, cooking, laundry, and other tasks. Will you divide the chores equally, or will one person take on certain tasks and the other person handle others?
Personal space and boundaries: It is important to discuss how you will respect each other's personal space and boundaries. Will you each have your own room, or will you share a room? Will you have designated “alone time” or quiet hours?
Schedules and routines: It is important to discuss your schedules and routines, as well as how you will handle conflicting schedules and priorities. For example, if one person works late or has a busy social schedule, how will that affect the other person's routine?
Future plans and goals: It is also important to discuss your future plans and goals, such as whether you see yourselves living together long-term, whether you want to have children, and whether you have any major life goals or aspirations that could impact your living situation.
Overall, it is important for couples to have open and honest discussions about these and other topics before moving in together, in order to ensure that they are on the same page and that their living arrangement will be successful and fulfilling for both parties.
She asked and you answered, it would be worse if you lied about it.
I wouldn't say to her that you think it's ridiculous that she's worried about it, she's entitled to feel the way she does. But you can posit to her that it happened a long time ago, it wasn't something serious or emotional and that you really hope it doesn't ruin a potential future between you and her.
She's gotta be the one to make the decision about it. Some people have different boundaries. Personally, even if it made me uncomfortable or weirded out to think about, a drunken make out at a party in college with a friend is pretty easy to shrug off if I really liked someone.
This is absolute bullshit. People are allowed to be jealous of things, especially those out of their control. OP has done nothing negative towards his friend, and he is trying to sort out his internal feelings. I guess he should be talking this out through a therapist, not talking to judgmental people on an advice subreddit. This isn't AITA, and even if it were, he's done nothing to be an AH.
OP – if you do read this, having the feelings you have are normal. The world isn't fair, and to be reminded of that so close to home is difficult. Keep being a good friend to your friend, and do what you can to not worry about the financial part of it, as tough as that may be. If it really bothers you, try going to a therapist to help work out some of your feelings and emotions in a healthy way.
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Every boy learns by age 8-12 that the best defense is a strong offense. At school, home, work, it’s everywhere. He was doing cocaine, you’re not mistaken. You’re not the asshole for calling out obvious drug use while outside with an addict friend. Add to that the whole. Bro Code behavior of running downstairs and telling them outright what’s going on so they could instantly back him up while conveniently also getting away from you so you couldn’t see how dilated his pupils were. You got played and now he has a very convenient excuse for all that behavior whenever he snorts cocaine. And he’s hoping that his angry outburst this time will stop you from accusing him next time.