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“She claims she has been and told me all the details but they don't make sense to me”
Ah. So she's still lying to you then. She's trickle truthing you right now, that's why the details do not make sense.
You may find the only reasons she's told you this much is because someone knows or saw and she is afraid they will tell before she does.
And you may find she has done this before…many times.
I’m not talking about his actions, I’m talking about whether swallowing is a reasonable boundary or not. I simply stated reasonable is subjective. Is it not?
Do you like her romantically?
You better lawyer up and fight for your son like your life depended on it. Do not stay with a soulless man, let alone let him have custody over your boy.
Doesn't matter. Guessing at it won't help but no sane person would cut off communication like this unless there was more to it. And, if he's not sane, she's better off not being with an insane person.
It's pricey even when you switch off.
You deserve better. She's reduced you down to a wallet. That's not okay.
Info: How quickly did you begin supporting her and her family financially?
That’s really not a good way to start a long-distance relationship. It creates a real power imbalance and it can lead to you being financially manipulated. You’re creating a power imbalance by offering that money, regardless of what is being done with it. It can become something they depend on and a motivating factor for continuing the relationship.
You also need to really stop and think about the reality of what the visa process is. My husband is American, I’m not. Signing up for financial responsibility of another human being is a huge thing, especially when you both don’t actually appear to know each other on a deep level.
This doesn’t sound like a relationship where it’s worth taking that risk. She literally gives you one word answers to questions while in bed with you and was really dismissive of your friends. You’re recognising jealousy issues, and she has a past history with foreign boyfriends ghosting her…numerous LDRs isn’t a green flag. You have to stop and ask yourself, “Why has this person been in so many relationships with foreigners?”
It’s also quite clear that she isn’t using the money you’re giving her to further her career, learn new skills or build a life for herself. Why would she? You’re supporting her and her family. Do you really want the actual financial risk of a visa process with that situation? You have to trust someone to make amazing financial decisions when you’re responsible for them.
Honestly, none of this sounds like the healthiest relationship to me.
Ok, so then what is the issue? Is is not allowed where you live to have a relationship with unser 18 year olds? When do you turn 18?
It's been less than 2 days. He's not really had a chance to show you who he is. Likely he's a bit taken by surprise but interested. I don't think you can really judge yet if he's assertive or not at this point. You initiated and maybe he is busy so far today and going to contact you later on, ya know? I wouldn't put too much thought into it yet. If it's a huge deal at this point for you I'd do like someone else said and just say give me a ring or text tomorrow when you get a chance or something similar.
It came about two weeks before we had our legal ceremony. Almost no time to argue my case to him.
There's not much room for compromise here. It's not like you can just kind of have another kid. One of you is going to have to take one for the team. So no, it's not too early to have this conversation because this could be a deal breaker for either one of you, and if it is, better to figure it out now.
Kids are massive commitments. You already know this, and with three between you already, he's not out of line to think that's plenty.
You're not wrong for wanting to have another one, either. There's no bad guy in this scenario, but one of you is still going to lose. Whether you can take the loss remains to be determined, but it's going to happen.
Have this talk and have it soon. Don't wait until you're 5 years down the road and married, with the lives of both your families fully entangled before decide you can't work it out.
End it. My wife did this to me after we'd been married for several years except she got the baby bug, spread it to me, and then within the year had actively stop having sex with me.
When I called her on it she admitted that she changed her mind about kids, didn't want to have to tell me, so started avoiding having sex just to make sure she didn't get pregnant.
So, all our future plans don't mean fuck to me anymore and the last 3.5yrs have been miserable. I wake up and go to work, I drink when I can, and am basically waiting to die. I used to want to live a long time and enjoy retirement together and raise our kids, being better parents than either of us had (low bar), and making sure there was someone around to take care of her when I'm gone (I'm a few years older than her). But there's no point to anything. It's a cold house we've built.
Don't put yourself anywhere near going through something like this.