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twerk for 5 mins [Multi Goal]
Date: November 14, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
twerk for 5 mins [Multi Goal]
I hate to say this, but he showed his true self in those actions. There isn’t anything you could have done to change his actions because they were HIS. You deserve much better for the father of your kids, and you deserve better for YOU. in this situation, the trash took itself out. There is nothing wrong with you, the issue was his own.
Yea’ you screwed the pooch on that in little buddy…
My point was that there's loads more challenge points that you react to differently at different ages. You're agreed you want something serious but that doesn't mean you agree on what “something serious” looks like. If you don't care enough to consider that, then you're not in it for something serious, you're just having fun (which is fine as long as you tell her that)
PS, your response to this challenge (that you won't move, so either you'd break up or she's got to sacrifice her big chance) was super quick and deflected the burden of choice to the future, which confirms to me you're in it for fun. Just be honest with her about it.
“I always appreciate when people are upfront about who they are and behave as themselves around me. I don't want to pursue a relationship with you any more.”
Being totally honest here, he sounds like he’s horrible to you. He’s a deadbeat who barely takes care of his kids, cheated on you, slept with his ex, got you pregnant at 17 years old, does drugs, is an alcoholic, and clearly has no respect for you.
He says he loves you… but actions speak louder than words. Does any of this read as the actions of a man who loves you? You don’t treat people you love like this.
Imagine your kids. How would you feel if one of your kids became an adult and ended up with someone like this? Is this the standard for love you want to set? Because this is what you’re teaching your children accidentally; “other people can hurt and betray you over and over again, but you should stay.”
No…ironically I have health anxiety and vomit phobia too so I really can’t take medication very well
Your friend is a good friend, and rightfully concerned about your well-being.
No 41 year-old has any business dating any 19 year-old. It is predatory. There’s a huge imbalance in power, economics, stage of life, etc, etc.
No he does not
Most of us delete or hide those photos so that we can move on. He's clearly not over his ex and you don't need to wait around. Tell him he needs to leave because he doesn't seem serious about a relationship with you. Even if he was, I'd kick him out anyway. But I'm 33f and tired of bullshit. Good luck to you!