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hot dance [Multi Goal]
Date: October 4, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
hot dance [Multi Goal]
You two have polar opposite views. For whatever reason, she is getting satisfaction/validation/excitement/self-esteem/happiness/whatever from this and she is adamant about it too. For any relationship it is better to try to understand where the other person is coming from, i.e. the reasons for their behavior, attitude, beliefs. If you want to stay with her then do that. There is a saying: Be curious, not furious. Listen without judgment.
Tell her. It doesn’t have to be some huge confession. Just a “there was some red flags and concerning behavior that I didn’t want to be involved with any longer. He might be a good friend but I don’t think he makes a great partner and I’m not comfortable spending time around him anymore.” If she pushes for more tell her that you’d rather not get into specifics. She can accept and respect that or think what she likes.
Well, you married him. What has changed in the relationship? Why is there no intimacy? Also, you don't have to “just let it out.” You don't “just let out” every emotion you have to people at work, right? No. So, you can watch what you say and how you say it if you want to.
My point is people take vows and say those words. But, they'll break their most sacred vows if “they're not happy.” So, don't take the vows unless you mean it. This goes for everyone, not just you. This is also why I'd never get married again. There's no value in it – at least for men. Our society no longer frowns on premarital sex or cohabitating unmarried partners. So, why get married at all? It's just a way to feel stuck, let one or both parties get complacent, and then the breakup (divorce) is an ugly legal issue.
When you just stay BF/GF then both partners know that the other can leave quickly, easily, and cheaply any time they want. I think this keeps people working on the relationship harder.
Three visits and ten to twenty texts
It was wrong for me to be flippant about that. I’m sorry.