Over the course of 5 years especially when people are in their 20s and still figuring life out people are bound to change their minds over things. She wasn't manipulating you, she has just grown more and experienced life and decided she doesn't want kids. Then she tries to talk to you about it calmly and your reaction is to just leave and yell at her insulting her. You need to sit down and have an open and honest conversation with her, figure out if she is really sure she doesn't want kids. If she is determined to be child free and you are determined to have kids then that's a huge incompatibility and as much as it sucks you will need to break up. It's no one's fault but something like wanting kids or not is a big deal breaker, you can love eachother and also realize you are no longer compatible and have to go separate ways in order for you both to find happiness.
switch to a vape
Have you tried therapy and medication?
Over the course of 5 years especially when people are in their 20s and still figuring life out people are bound to change their minds over things. She wasn't manipulating you, she has just grown more and experienced life and decided she doesn't want kids. Then she tries to talk to you about it calmly and your reaction is to just leave and yell at her insulting her. You need to sit down and have an open and honest conversation with her, figure out if she is really sure she doesn't want kids. If she is determined to be child free and you are determined to have kids then that's a huge incompatibility and as much as it sucks you will need to break up. It's no one's fault but something like wanting kids or not is a big deal breaker, you can love eachother and also realize you are no longer compatible and have to go separate ways in order for you both to find happiness.