I dated a girl who was kinda like this. Every night at the end of the night I’d call her and we’d talk for about an hour. A lot of times it was shorter than that but other times we’d talk for longer. We’d talk about our day and everything that happened. Other than that I really wouldn’t text her at all during the day besides a special circumstance like a surprise good morning text or if I saw something hilarious that I had to tell her about. I can’t stand being with somebody who has a constant need to talk to me. I need a girl who can live her life and stand on her own without me. This is how alot of people feel not just guys.
Except (source: Shirley Glass PhD “NOT 'Just Friends' “) I does. Her opening line:
“GOOD PEOPLE in good marriages are having affairs.”
Decades of research into infidelity, hundreds of couples counseled, and it is clear: people who never imagined themselves in an affair have one. It is less a product of planning to cheat and more of allowing lines to blur. It is an incremental process that allows people to slowly move from friendly into an emotional and/or physical affair.
Having an opposite sex person in an ongoing private area (or one filled with unknowing or uncaring onlookers) is a disaster waiting to happen. The conditions exist to develop an affair without the wayward spouse realizing the danger until long after the damage is done.
From page 3 of that book:
“After reviewing twenty-five studies, however, I concluded that 25 percent of wives and 44 percent of husbands have had extramarital intercourse. This is startling news indeed.”
Interesting. What does he want, if I may ask ? Do you talk to him about his dreams or aspirations ?
I dated a girl who was kinda like this. Every night at the end of the night I’d call her and we’d talk for about an hour. A lot of times it was shorter than that but other times we’d talk for longer. We’d talk about our day and everything that happened. Other than that I really wouldn’t text her at all during the day besides a special circumstance like a surprise good morning text or if I saw something hilarious that I had to tell her about. I can’t stand being with somebody who has a constant need to talk to me. I need a girl who can live her life and stand on her own without me. This is how alot of people feel not just guys.
Except (source: Shirley Glass PhD “NOT 'Just Friends' “) I does. Her opening line:
“GOOD PEOPLE in good marriages are having affairs.”
Decades of research into infidelity, hundreds of couples counseled, and it is clear: people who never imagined themselves in an affair have one. It is less a product of planning to cheat and more of allowing lines to blur. It is an incremental process that allows people to slowly move from friendly into an emotional and/or physical affair.
Having an opposite sex person in an ongoing private area (or one filled with unknowing or uncaring onlookers) is a disaster waiting to happen. The conditions exist to develop an affair without the wayward spouse realizing the danger until long after the damage is done.
From page 3 of that book:
“After reviewing twenty-five studies, however, I concluded that 25 percent of wives and 44 percent of husbands have had extramarital intercourse. This is startling news indeed.”
This is the danger.
I'd suggest melatonin gummies and multivitamins
Let her go, she sounds like a miserable person who is not kind to you.