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Don't have his children if he can't get married he can't get children it's that easy. Also if you aren't married it's obvious that the child needs a surname but whose will the que. If he wants to name the child he need to give his name to you too. He just wants benefits of a wife with no permanent commitments
When you grow up, you’ll realise a lot of things don’t need blowing out of proportion. Even the OP herself has responded to me in a much calmer and better way than this load of verbal diarrhoea, and she’s the one dealing with the actual situation.
OP, I have to wonder why you “soldier on” in a relationship with someone who is clearly not on the same page as you in terms of investment and commitment?
The adult thing to do is discuss it calmly and respectfully. Figure out if he is worth your time and be the bigger person. The whole cold shoulder and ignoring each other is not a mature way to handle a problem like this. Playing games like this is for 16 year olds and baby adults
Same here I had an ex who, in his Christmas card in which he told me he loved me for the first time, included a bunch of shit about how I put up with all his shit and he knows I'll stay with him through anything. It felt so..ick and I was right because he emotionally abused me before it eventually got physical at the end, and in between all that cheating too.
I don’t disagree that this is how it is.
I just think it’s completely fucked and apparently men are far less evolved and capable of complex thought than I would have hoped.
So you got a chick that can only do oral and anal…. Weird way to brag but.. good for you ?
It's tough but she should have been honest from the start, instead she led you on knowing that this would be a huge truth bomb to drop. Completely up to you what you do. If you know you want your own children one day, that's obviously a huge barrier.
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She's trying to stop you standing up for yourself. There's a decent chance this would bleed into more aspects. You aren't allowed to describe your own feelings in private to your partner. She is allowed to say and do whatever she wants and you have to accept it no matter what. That sounds pretty abusive. Just let her leave.
Of course she should leave. He cheated on her at least twice. He's massively disrespecting his wife, and lying about it too. Who would want to stay with someone like that?
If your sex life is bad now, marriage will only make it worse.
Also lmao, he is lying to his wife sweetheart, you dont think he is capable of lying to you about her? What makes you think you are so special that he would never lie to you?
Wake up kid he is using you. He has no plans of leaving his wife. To him you’re: young, naive, fun, impressionable, no work, and easy, and especially easy to foul with promise of things he has no intention of committing to. When you’re in your mid to late 20s, you’ll realize how disgusting he is to be chasing after a teenager, as a grown ass adult.
Wake. Up.
What is the reason you don’t? You work right? And she pays for things?
I don’t mean to seem judgmental, but is there another side to this argument? What are you guys fighting about? What would be her side in this?
If she is in fact abusing you, then you should really leave the relationship. All I’m trying to do is get a fuller picture of the situation.
I read some of the replies and I agree with not breaking up in private or even in person, in case he tries to hurt you. I am worried though if he will try and stalk you or something.
You're her backup, she doesn't want her backup taken away
Dave’s actually a victim as well if he would have wanted to know and then would have supported the child. He missed out on the opportunity to be a good father and to build a relationship with his son.
You're worried about yourself….that's the common theme here. Have you heard of accountability?
Girl good luck. It’s time to reevaluate the way the two of you do your finances. This “we” business is great in theory but it is not working for your relationship. You keep yours, he keeps his, you both have a joint account where a set predetermined amount is deposited by the both of you. You’re responsible for x while he’s responsible for y. And it will remain that way until you can account for every penny of that 17k he has “misplaced”.
No no that's what HE said.
No, this is done.
He hasn't come clean at all, if he does now it'll be because he knows that you know.
Get your ducks in a row and get out of there asap, better doing this now than next time you catch him cheating.
There will definitely be a next time.
TikTok probably knows he watches porn and pulls from that. I’m pretty sure it was confirmed it pulls data about how you use other apps
Umm he had her consent. She wanted the money.
It’s very hot, I have such a attachment to him and I fear being alone. The last time I said we should break up, he got extremely angry and handsy, as in grabbing me.
With a household of 6 children, your wife is stressed out and most likely resentful, she has been taking your kids since you got together.. why isn’t your wife taking care of them..
She states in a comment further down that he was actually talking and getting together with these 2 girls in the long distance time and lying about it. He admitted to that previously when she confronted him. I think after that, she probably does have a reason not to trust him.
She has asked for them but I immediately deleted her texts and blocked the new numbers she was using when I received them. It brings me a lot of emotional pain and PTSD to see her messages. At this point I am expecting her to break it to me when Friday comes =/ I'll keep y'all posted.
My wife says the conversations are like something between two friends, and my ex and I shouldn't be friends. She says she needs boundaries.
Sounds incredibly insecure and immature. Friendly exes that have children are great. No animosity, no hate, just good vibes… and your wife is not okay with that?
What should I do?
Suggest your wife go to therapy.
I keep going back and forth with it though. After the face grab, I didn’t fight it. Just wanted it over with to get him to leave.
It sounds like this is going to be a recurring theme with her. It's up to you if you want to online with it, or just try to find someone that's a little more stable.
Honestly my dude. You broke your leg and stayed at her parents and her place entirely too long. I know that's not what you want to hear but you should've returned home as quickly as you could've.
OK, so gold-digger regardless, fi she's sending 500 bucks a month, there's no need for you to send $1K a month. But her reaction is telling to me. You aren't “selfish” for wanting to safeguard your own future in the face of financially irresponsible family. This is a her, not a you, problem.
Yes, you have reason to be afraid, your bf is an abusive bastard who is using his childhood to gaslight you into believing that he can't help it and shouldn't be blamed for it. He can and he should.
The violence will only escalate, as he's learning that you will put up with it. He's not going to stop, and he's not going to get better, because he has no reason to stop, and doesn't think there is anything wrong with him.
He may well have C-PTSD as a result of his upbringing, but that does NOT give him the right to abuse you! Asl him this; if he is so damaged from being abused as a child, why does he now think it's ok to damage you the same way? If it was wrong for others to hurt him, then it is wrong for him to hurt you.
Get out. Get out now. You do NOT deserve this, and will be so much happier when you're no longer living in fear.
I like to be in the moment and then get home and sleep.
I don’t text my husband when I go out, and he doesn’t text me. When I go away on multiday hikes I text him every few days if that.
I think you don’t get to that healthy emotional place if you can’t allow your awareness to be 100% in the time and place that you’re experiencing.
A bit more mindful living would cut down a lot of the anxiety that is plaguing the world imo.
Do you often get into arguments where one of you leaves to stay somewhere else?
On one hand you made some bad choices and did a bad thing, presumably you knew he was married. You don't need to atone for this, just examine your standards and decision making process and don't do that again.
The married man is fully responsible for his actions though, and has demonstrated himself to be untrustworthy. Nobody in their right mind wants a cheater. Don't be friends, don't feel bad for them. Just get away, and call the police on anyone who harasses or threatens you if that is a safe thing to do in your jurisdiction.
She sounds like she has unresolved issues that require some serious therapy. I would put the friendship on a shelf and let her rekindle it after, i mean AFTER, She apologizes for her behavior and her unkind words.
Her words and her reactions were completely uncalled for.
Y'all are too young to understand what y'all are talking about if that is your/her definition of pedophile.
I have dated older, by 20 years, and younger by the same (north of 40 in both cases,) you love who you love. Age is just a number. A number that means something, but if you're over 25, for a guy, or 18 for a girl, I'd say physiological maturity has been achieved and would be fair game. Society will have their own bullshit rules, but I'd pick what works for you, so long as it is legal (your fantasy game situation obviously was), and let you do you.
Am I the only one who, after reading this, thinks that the twins are sleeping together?
Thank you for sharing male specific resources. I am a woman but was banned from r/NarcissisticAbuse because I asked for those resources for a friend of mine struggling to process the fact he was being abused as a man. The only local organisation specifically has “women” in the name so just amplified his struggle to accept men can be victims too. I had a barrage of insulting DMs from a mod, ironically and got banned. So thanks again for these.
They’re instagram models that are equivalent to soft porn or just actual porn. I’m opposed to the idea of porn aswell as i believe it’s bad for the biochemistry of your brain. My problem is, why double tap the photo? why show everyone that you want to fuck this individual. Why not look and scroll? I thinks it’s disrespectful
He's abusive. You need help to leave. There are resources online. Seek help. This relationship is not fixable or okay. You are in danger.
We seem to be over looking the fact she cheated on you and has been hiding it and lying to you for a year now. How can there be any trust? Open relationships seldom work. Open relationships without honesty and trust NEVER work. Do not light yourself on fire to keep her and her boss warm.
Sounds like you have another question to research with a religious leader. That will help clear the confusion.
Yes because, from what you described, she doesn’t sound malicious. She just isn’t your cup of tea, which is fine. But it doesn’t mean that she’s a terrible person who you need to confront or end the friendship in a dramatic way. Just be “busy” until she stops reaching out. Healthy adult friendships end quietly
WTF?! It is one think to have this dream – we all had some really strange dreams. But he was so eager to talk to you. That is just creepy. He knew exactly that it was inappropiate otherwise he would have told his wife or you in front of your fiance.
I don’t know if i would tell my mother just to gave her the chance to decide for herself if she want finally get free of him.
And i would try not to be alone with him. He could just had zip up about this dream, like we all do about crazy shit. But he overshared. Either he likes to shock and provoke or he knows no bounderies – or he wanted a reaction of you. Overall just creepy.
Damn, you are just awful.
I hope how people responded this helped you look at this differently.
And – also important – you can get a restraining order for behavior like this, even when it doesn’t necessarily meet the level of a crime.
I would not stay with someone who’s going to prison
Atonement
I mean I'm not saying this to be mean, just being totally honest with you that from my perspective, you need to learn how to let the small things go. I get it that you obsess over something when you really like it for a bit, I think we all do that, but we can't expect everyone around us to conform to what we like. I think the best advice would be for you to learn how to work on yourself and try to learn how to let things roll off your shoulders a little better. If he doesn't want to watch the show, it's no big deal because you still get to watch and enjoy the things you love! Choosing to be in a relationship means choosing to compromise on things. In his free time, he gets to do what he likes and in your free time you get to do what you like. Everybody wins.
Why are you letting children give you ultimatums? It's you wedding. Invite who you want.
How did it go?
I saw something similar happen with 1 girl friend of mine. She finished her master almost. While he was although working. Not that much contributing since he had no degree. So she said to him. Or get a degree or I will not continue with you.
I would do something similar tho because if not you are getting, like you said, the short end of the stick.
He's right, the age gap is huge and a relationship between the two of you would be highly inappropriate. He's set a clear boundary with you and you need to respect it, just like you'd want someone to respect yours.
If he’s that stubborn about it, that’s that. Shame, sounds exciting to have possibilities like that and for me it would be a big turn off that someone was so closed to even discussing it.
Up to you in the end, but ultimatums like that aren’t really the foundation of a great marriage.
He’s def hiding stuff from you. Such as his place of living
Question: is your wife constantly stressed, under pressure, with everything on her shoulders while you just work and play with toddler when home, being the fun dad? Because it sounds like this started after the end of her maternity leave, when she started juggling work, toddler and possibly having to shoulder all the little issue of family life (it’s her arranging appointments with doctors, childcare, vaccines, dentist, playdates, birthday parties, dinners, sorting the house, doing the grocery shopping, cleaning, etc). She sounds burn out.
only you can decide what’s right for you! I’m glad to hear you’re closer to making that decision
I think all he needs is for you to be there for him.
How long have you been together?
Where did you get this at all from what the OP said ? He literally has not eluded to any form of very hot feelings or jealousy at all. Fair enough if this was all withing a couple of weeks I'd understand you tryna spin this angle but cmon, a year and a half on he's just now realised he's hurt ?
What's best here is for OP to tell her partner that she's potentially a cheating scumbag then let him decided if she actually cheated ir if they were broken up ect.
Is your message the truth? Did you have no doubt in your mind about her love for you? Did you only say that because you let your insecurities get the best of you?
If that’s your truth then speak your truth.
Damn, nta. My house is full of happiness and love because we know the power of “let it go.”
Your life sounds miserable. I'm sorry mate.
Stop talking to that guy, you’re never going to move on if you don’t stop hearing about her.
CNC? I'm assuming it's a kink thing but when I search it up I get computer numerical control
I like enemies to lovers too, but even the fantasy of r*pe makes me feel icky
He has no other sketchy traits, which is why these stories took me completely by surprise
I have absolutely written hundreds of thousands of words just for me. Not this kind of subject matter (not any single kind of subject matter), but writers write. It's great free therapy for me.
Aching to put it in her mouth? Dude, don’t be ridiculous.
You're right, if he never said he'd keep it or expressed there was an issue then it would be on me. But that wasn't the case.
I moved to CA for college initially and lived in a tiny apartment. Most college kids aren't expected to take all their belongings with them, and I took as much as I could possibly fit in our cars and Uhaul. He said not to worry about the stuff I couldn't fit, and I took more and more back with me each time I visited over the years. I could understand if I had a bunch of crap I left, but the only stuff of mine that was left was about 4 small boxes worth that were organized and put in the attic, as well as my old bedroom furniture (I understood entirely getting rid of the furniture). And it's not like he's a clean freak, the house was in a chaotic state when he moved because he impulsively buys stuff too and it all stacked up.
And I did add my age (30f). Yes I am serious….would you expect someone with a broken middle finger to be able to move heavy solid wood furniture, bring inside big plants (we online in Houston, so hurricanes) or pull crab grass from a flower bed? Like I said I never asked for anything, and still was able to help him with most things that didn't involve heavy lifting or pulling. I stood my ground on the few things I wasn't able to do since my finger was severely fractured and I wasn't supposed to lift more than 10 lbs. He still ridiculed me for it, but that wasn't the main point of my post. I mentioned it to help paint a picture of his recent behavior.
One option may be to get ahead of it and plan something yourself. Invite HER to something that actually works with your schedule.
Hey cousin, I know we’ve tried to meet up a few times now but with my schedule, I really have to plan further in advance and need to meet part way. I’m available X and Y days at Z time and could meet for dinner at . Do either of those evenings work for you?
She sounds like a retired friend of mine. She messages a lot AND guilt trips me if I don’t respond quickly enough or am not available. A few weeks ago she even sent me a nasty gram type message of “I’ll just stop contacting you, good luck with your life” and I responded “look, I enjoy meeting up. But I have a partner, a stepson, my job, my horses, my volunteer work, my mom is in the hospital, I’m taking care of my GPA in law—I have a lot of shit going on and my free time is scarce. So I can’t do spur of the moment plans and I can’t get together every week. If that’s a problem for you, sure, we can stop getting together.”
She got the clue and we did a reset. She’s just bored and craving human interaction. Which I get. But my life—like yours—is quite full.